First off, I welcome messages and think its cool for a girl to make the first move.
Generally I am looking for something less serious right now and no strings attached. I am not looking for a relationship. Sorry if that doesn't work for you. I am a totally normal guy despite that though. I like going out to bars, restaurants or whatever with any dates...so please don't think I don't enjoy that even though I don't want anything serious.
I have been out of school for 7 years now and while a lot of my friends are settling down, I still want to meet new people and do new things. My job consumes a lot of my time (dinners/bars/sporting events), but I tend to be the one to rally the troops for a good night out. I am a very social person and am always out and about. I am very driven and know what I want out of life, but am also the type to wear a hilarious costume on Halloween or for my holiday party. (I always have one of the best costumes at the party.)
Those who know me, say I am a straight shooter and upfront.
I guess one thing people should know about me. I am either dating very seriously or I am single. There isn't an in between with me and why I am upfront about what I want. I have dated 2 girls seriously in my life. 1 was for 5 years on and off and the other was for 2.5 years on and off. That explanation may clarify the situation a little better for people. I am just not looking for anything too serious right now.
I prefer petite girls. I am looking for someone that is not looking for something serious (essentially wants to go out for drinks or dinner and wants to hook up), but not a slut (is it ok to say that?).
I have heard some weird things about this website...If you are a stripper or hooker (escort) I have no interest. I am looking for normal girls that just dont want anything serious.