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BVavs

35 M Norwich, CT

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–36
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Aug 9
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've always been unsatisfied with filling out anything that asks me to describe myself into a summarization. I become afraid that the true depth of who I am cannot be conveyed in just a couple of paragraphs, and therefore doesn't describe me acurrately enough. What if there is someone out there who would make the two of us a perfectly matched couple, but decides that my brief description is neither similar nor appealing enough? When in actuality, once someone gets past vague summarizations, and truly gets to know me, they discover all sorts of intricities and suprises. Isn't that the case with how a relationship with most people develop, romantic or otherwise?
If I had to descibe myself into something short, sweet, and to the point, I guess I would have to start by saying: I'm a lover of life and of people who strive to make life an illustrious place. Those who know me describe me as someone who is highly intelligent, open-minded, sharp-witted, perhaps too creative for his own good, and yet thoroughly kind and considerate towards others. I am a firm believer of the "Golden Rule", and do my best in striving to promote it. I also feel strongly about the fact that anyone who becomes intertwined with your path in life, even if for a brief amount of time, has something to offer you that will help you to become a better, more well-rounded individual.
I try to maintain a jovial attitude as frequently as I can. Having a sense of humor is important. Although I exhibit a candid type of lightheartedness, the atrocities this world is currently enduring deeply saddens me.
It has often been said of me that though I may not be considered monetarily rich, I am blessed with a great wealth of friends. Once someone becomes a part of my inner circle, they stay there. I deeply value the relationships I have with my friends and family. Because of the compassion, love, and loyality I freely give to those I care about, many of the people in my life have been there for decades. I fact that I take tremendous pride in, knowing that once you're my friend, you will never become one of my enemies.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am currently working on my upcoming solo album. (I'm a song writer and lyricist. I'm also into hiphop production) In addition, I'm currently writing a novel based on the many experiences I've had the luxury of being part of. I also work full time for a non-profit agency.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I try to remain modest and humble about everything. If you were to ask others who know me well, they would probably tell you that I'm good at writing songs, MCing, telling jokes, performing shows, writing stories, and hiphop production. I'm also good at making friends, keeping friends, and making others feel loved and appreciated. I've been told many times that I'm an exceptional listener, and that I give great advice. Additionally, I am also an amazingly skilled "Boggle" player. Anyone who thinks they can beat me, I'll keep an open invitation to quote on quote "Bring it!"
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well, first of all I'm over 6 feet, 3 inches. It's pretty much impossible not to notice that first. Also, people tend to notice my blue eyes, along with my ability to make excellent eye contact with others.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I am extremely passionate about music, movies, books, and different styles of cuisine. (Pretty much in that order)

I will listen to pretty much any genre of music. I have a saying that goes, "As long as my ears find it enjoyable, it can pretty much be anything." Some of my favorites include: Portishead, The Beatles, Led Zepplin, Wes Montgomery, Charlie Christian, Buck 65, Atmosphere, Granola Funk Express, MF Doom, The Black Keys, MadLib, Air, Kruder and Dorfmiester, DJ Krush, My Bloody Valentine, Tosca, GangStarr, Belle and Sebastian, Elliott Smith, Blackstar, Radiohead, Neutral Milk Hotel, Sage Francis, FlowBots, Old School HipHop (Anything before 1996), John and Alice Coltrane, Chisel, Air, Pink Floyd, The Police, Talking Heads, James Brown, Amon Tobin, Sasha, John Digweed, DJ QBert, Dan the Automator, DJ Z-Trip, Fela Kuti, Mr.Lif, Company Flow, Naked City, Prince Paul, Lootpack, Swollen Members, The Band, Credence Clearwater Revival, The Flaming Lips, The Magnetic Fields, Television, Mazzy Star, The Pixies, The Clash, Mr. Bungle, Sole, Aesop Rock, and many others. My personal music collection spans to almost 3000 CD's and approximately three times that in Vinyl. Anyone who hangs with me can experience a vast catalogue of music they've probably never heard before.

As far as movies go, it's pretty much the same thing. It really doesn't matter the genre. I like comedy when it's funny, suspense when it's suspensful, summer blockbusters when the visuals are as good as advertised. I also enjoy movies that are smartly written, brilliantly acted, or impressively directed. (Or even better, a combination of the 3!!) Some of the films that stand out in my mind right now are: Inception, Children of Men, Pan's Labyrinth, The Dark Knight, L.A. Confidential, The Departed, Goodfellas, The Godfather Parts 1 and 2, anything directed by Stanley Kubrick(Like Dr. Strangelove, A Clockwork Orange, or Spartacus), most of Woody Allen's earlier films, The Diving Bell and the Butterfly, Waltz with Bashir, Blood Diamond, Casino, Donnie Brasco, Yu Tu Mama Tambien, What's Eating Gilbert Grape, Seven, The Band's Visit, Sideways, Closer, Blow, Trainspotting, Drugstore Cowboy, Million Dollar Baby, The Unforgiven (Actually, pretty much everything Clint Eatswood has directed in the past 20 years has been excellent), Requiem For a Dream, American History X, Fight Club, Ed Wood, Resivoir Dogs, Pulp Fiction, No Country For Old Men, There Will Be Blood, The Motorcycle Diaries, Le Vie En Rose, The Girl With the Dragon Tatoo (The original sweedish version), I've Loved You For So Long, and many others.

For books, I'll pretty much read anything as long as it engages me. I just finished Dan Brown's "Deception Point" which was suprisingly good, since I didn't like "The DaVinci Code" which was also written by him. Some others that stand out in my mind: "Catcher in the Rye", "Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas", "Junky" by William S. Burroughs, anything by Charles Bukowski (My favorite from him is "Ham on Rye"), "The Kite Runner", "Slaughterhouse Five", "The Savage Detectives" by Roberto Bolano, "She's Come Undone" by Wally Lamb, "Shutter Island" by Dennis Lehane, "The Diving Bell and the Butterfly", "Watership Down", Augusten Burroughs has written a few books that I enjoyed reading. ("Running With Scissors", "Dry", and "Possible Side Effects" to be specific). The "Lord of the Rings" Trilogy is always a classic. I have read and thoroughly enjoyed almost everything by William Shakespeare. I also enjoy biographical and historical literature as well. Especially literary material that features nonbiased opinions regarding the subject matter, thus revealing actual truths about our past and present. "Lies My Teacher Told Me" and "How the Irish Changed Civilization" are among my favorites. When I reached high school, I developed a passion for reading playwrights. It started with Shakespeare, but over the years, my favorites spanned to include many others, featuring various genres; Dramas and comedies are my preferred genres though. Henrik Ibsen ("Enemy of The People", "A Doll's House") and Peter Shaffer ("Equus" and "Amadeus") are two of my favorites. I also love various works by Eugene O'neill, Arthur Miller, and Oscar Wilde. Have to love and appreciate the greek classics as well. Oedipus Rex played a major part in influencing my literary tastes.

For television, I'm really into certain shows. Some of my favorites are The Wire, The Sopranos, Mad Men, Weeds, Nurse Jackie, Breaking Bad, Spartacus (Blood and Sand, Gods of the Arena, Vengance), Hell on Wheels, Deadwood, Game of Thrones, Boardwalk Empire, Seinfeld, Saturday Night Live, Community (Although Season 3 was kind of a letdown), OZ, Flight of the Conchord's, Family Guy, Robot Chicken, Tim and Eric Awesome Show Great Job, Most of the Adult Swim cartoons actually, and many of the Nick at Night shows I grew up on like The Cosby Show, Fresh Prince of Bel-Air, Roseanne. I'm a sucker for any pawn related reality shows like Pawn Stars, Hardcore Pawn, American Pickers, Oddities, Storage Wars, etc. Additionally, I can't get enough of survival shows like Man Vs. Wild, Survivorman, and Dual Survival to name a few. You can catch me watching any reality show that features people working dangerous jobs. Deadliest Catch is probably my favorite out of that category, but I also enjoy Saw Dogs, Dirty Jobs with Mike Rowe, and River Monsters. I can't seem to get enough of anything educational too! I love documentaries on pretty much anything. From Nature related material to Modern Marvels...and everything in between. If it educates me, I will watch it! HBO has been a great source of miniseries over the past decade. I loved Band of Brothers, The Pacific, Generation Kill, and John Adams, among others. I'm also known to watch certain cop dramas like CSI. Oh...and I loved the Sheild.

When it comes to food, there are many different types of cuisines that I enjoy. If I had to choose one however, it would have to be Italian. It's something I wouldn't mind eating everyday for the rest of my life if I had to. I am also an avid fan of Indian food, Middle Eastern cuisine, and mexican (as long as it's done right). There are many psuedo Mexican restaurants that make terrible dishes. In addition, I'm literally obsessed with any Asian cuisine. I absolutely love Vietnamese cooking, the spiciness of Thai food, authentic Chinese dishes, and the freshness of Japanese Sashimi, and Sushi. I'm virtually open to any type of food, and find it exciting to try new things.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Fun! Anything that causes it...Without instances of fun to interrupt the doldrums of our everyday routines, depression would run rampant.
2. A sense of humor and intellectual stimulation are tied..
3. The love recieved from my friends and family.
4. Coffee!!!!
5. My collection of music and my lifetime works of lyrical compositions.
6. Creativity. (It leads to anything artistic, technological, general socological advancement, etc.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend entirely too much time thinking about new ideas to put into my songwriting. I also find myself thinking about the many possibilities that could ultimately lead our world into apocalyptic ruin, and what can be done to prevent it. I know... that one's a bit scary. I'm not perfect, but neither is the world in which we live. We must walk a fine line between awareness, without allowing it to become a detremental obsession. I'm still figuring how to do that successfully.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I used to be an avid partier on the weekends when I was in my early 20's. But now I'm usually hanging out with friends, doing things a little less crazy. We might catch a movie, go see a band we like, maybe travel to Boston or New York for the weekend. You can often find me hitting up a nice place to eat with a group of my buddies, sharing memories of wilder times, laughing and whole-heartedly enjoying life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I guess you'll have to ask me and find out...
You should message me if
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You think we have some of the afforementioned in common, interested in getting to know someone who doesn't judge easily and is a very accepting individual. (What most might view as unattractive idiosyncracies, I often view as unique nuances that important to who you are). You should also message me if you think you would be down for anything from a wild adventure to a simple cup of coffee, or if you're interested in talking to someone who doesn't have alterior motives behind their wish to simply "Get to know someone".