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41 M Ashland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Aug 18
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Other, but not too serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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I believe life is about the journey. I am open minded, compassionate, and flexible. However, I know what I like, and how to prioritize - family, community, love, growth, passion, doing good work, joy, and having fun making music. My friends tell me I'm a gentle and grounded man, and I'd say that's about right. Of course, don't mistake being grounded for predictability; I enjoy spontaneity as well.
What I’m doing with my life
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My two children (9 & 13) live with me half-time, but I see them almost every day. I manage the water facilities at a mineral springs spa, and I completed my Sociology degree in September '13. As of now (August), I am less than two months away from completing my Masters in Teaching and Learning with Technology. Otherwise, I am picking my guitar, walking along the creek, riding my bike, cruising on my motorcycle, or attending yoga and other community gatherings.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Using chopsticks, Cooking, remodeling, opening to love, listening with compassion, exploring, and learning new things.
I also enjoy singing, dancing, and playing acoustic guitar, even though I have lots of room for improvement in such areas.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I make eye contact. I'm a good listener.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love vegan or vegetarian foods, especially Thai, Indian, Mexican, Italian, and eclectic blends.
I enjoy personal growth books ranging from Thich Nhat Hanh to David Deida. On the fiction side, good character development is a must, preferably with a deeper meaning. I gravitate towards mysteries and science fiction with environmental/cultural themes. On my son's recommendation, I read the Hunger Games trilogy, which I enjoyed on numerous levels. Carl Hiaasen, Orson Scott Card, Stuart Woods, Lee Child, Clive Cussler, etc.
The quality of the music I listen to is more important to me than the genre. I became a fan of Steve Earle after I saw him in Montana a few years ago, and I've been learning some of the songs off of his Townes album. If you feel like searching YouTube, you might even find a couple videos of me playing Townes covers at a local open mic.
Michael Franti, Elephant Revival, and the Targhee Bluegrass festival are the most recent larger shows I've attended, in addition to numerous local musicians that I enjoy supporting.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Son and Daughter (with space at times, especially as they get older and are finding their own paths)
Sunshine/Fresh, Open Air
Water (Ocean, stream, lake, etc.)
Fresh food (can be simple or gourmet, and must be cruelty free and natural)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, The Universe, and Everything; or society, sustainability, and sexuality.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Learning a new tune.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Biologically, I won't be fathering any children besides the two I already have; on a more humorous note, my former sweetheart helped me edit my profile, and she thought I should mention how hygienic and well-groomed I am, which I find rather amusing.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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You're honest and you're curious, are an open communicator who appreciates nature, and you like what you see here.