busy, geeky, and poly
My self-summary Propose an edit
I'm a poly geek who lives in Indianapolis. I have a
Master's
degree in computer science and an
undergraduate degree in psychology, and I work in the
telecommunications industry.
I'm into many geeky and not-so-geeky pursuits. I'm dating two wonderful women here in
Indianapolis, and a few more LD. I tend to be rather shy with new people, but warm up a lot
once I'm comfortable. I like to roleplay and watch DVDs, although I seldom catch any
current television... my TV is really more of a DVD monitor. I love
to travel, and I've
been to Asia twice...
the first visit was to China, Hong Kong, Korea and Japan, and the second visit was to
Malaysia. I
definitely want to go back to Asia as soon as I can afford to.
My girlfriend QueenStarsha is a member of the
Bloomington
Bleeding Heartland
Rollergirls, as one of the Slaughter Scouts, and that is
definitely expanding and increasing my interest in roller derby. Finally, a sport
I can get excited about!
I met my girlfriend Belisana here on OKCupid, and we've just
reached our one-year anniversary. Thanks, OKCupid!
Anything else you'd like to know, just ask.
What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit
This year I've managed to eliminate most, if not all, of the drama
from my life, so now I'm just working on time management and
generally trying to take better care of myself. I'm rather happy
with my current relationships, and I'm getting
slightly better at taking time for myself so I don't
always feel like I'm running from one thing to the next without a
break. I still never have another time to clean, journal, or read,
but I'm continue to work on it. I seldom find time for OKCupid,
alas, so if you've emailed me and waited forever for a response, I
apologize.
I'm really good at Propose an edit
Roleplaying
and storytelling, apparently. Whether
or not I'm good at juggling concurrent multiple open relationships
depends on who you ask. *grin*
The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit
My very long brown hair.
Edit:
"Love you sweetie! Your profile is indicitive of most everything i
love about you... not s3xy enough though. You should put that the
second thing people notice is that you are teh s3xor! (Actually the
second thing is that you dressed in the dark :P but teh s3xor is
definitely third.)
*grin*
hotarugirl"
My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit
Books: comics, Ethical Slut, exiles, gi joe, h2g2, Lamb: The Gospel According to Biff, omaha the cat dancer, Runaways, sailor moon, teen titans, transformers.
Movies: ghost busters, Natural Born Killers, Office Space, rocky horror picture show, Princess Bride, serenity, Slither.
Music: barenaked ladies, danny elfman, electronica, Gaelic Storm, Irish music, oingo boingo, richard cheese, tegan and sara, they might be giants, tony bacala, weird al.
Food: American, Chinese, Italian, and Japanese
The six things I could never do without Propose an edit
Books, Caffeine, My cell phone, My friends, The Internet, Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit
Roleplaying
(sadly enough), and my relationships. What I need to do
next and get done. What journal entries I want to write (only about
5% of which actually get written). Who I need to call/email/text
message next whenever I get the time.
On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit
Zonked out from a long work week, snuggling and watching DVDs with someone I
love.
The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit
I'm a poly swinger. I have concurrent
non-monogamous open relationships.
You should message me if Propose an edit
You don't mind waiting a bit to hear back from me. *grin*
My personality awards
Questions He Cares About View all
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- Do you have a problem with racist jokes?
- · Yes
- · No
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- Do you take prevention of STD transmission seriously (making sure your partner has been tested, using protection, being upfront if you're at risk, etc.)?
- · Always
- · Usually
- · Sometimes
- · Rarely
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- Your Significant Other's ex is coming into town and he/she wants to go out to dinner with them alone, how do you react?
- · Sure, no problem.
- · Not thrilled, but go ahead.
- · Not just no... but HELL no!
Tests He's Taken View all
| Title | His Result | Your Result |
|---|---|---|
| Title | His Result | Your Result |
| Are you a SEX nerd? | You scored 68%!! | Take it! |
| Which Ghostbuster are you? | Egon Spengler | Take it! |
| The Sexual Turn-ons Test | The Passionate Lover | Take it! |
| The Steampunk Style Test | The Gadgeteer | Take it! |
| The Unconventional Sex Test | HOLY SHIT. | Take it! |








