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  • Ages 25–55
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My details

Last online
Mar 15
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Atheism, and very serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Seeing Someone
Doesn’t want kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a poly geek who lives in Indianapolis. I have a Master's degree in computer science and an undergraduate degree in psychology, and I work in the telecommunications industry. I'm into many geeky and not-so-geeky pursuits. I'm involved with wonderful women here in Indiana (QueenStarsha, PoppyPan, and go_kid_go), as well as others not on OKC. As such, I'm pretty poly-saturated right now, and therefore I'm not looking for any more relationships.

I tend to be rather shy with new people, but warm up a lot once I'm comfortable. I like to role-play and watch DVDs, although I seldom catch any current television... my TV is really more of a DVD monitor. I love to travel, and I've been to Asia twice... the first visit was to China, Hong Kong, Korea and Japan, and the second visit was to Malaysia. I definitely want to go back to Asia as soon as I can afford to.

My girlfriend QueenStarsha is a roller girl who used to skate for the Bloomington Bleeding Heartland Rollergirls, and now skates with the Circle City Derby Girls. That definitely expanded and increased my interest in roller derby -- finally, a sport I can get excited about! After attending the CCS Thigh Scream Social derby boot camp, I joined the Race City Rebels men's derby league, and I started skating and bouting with them in the 2010 derby season. Although right now work is keeping me from attending practice enough to compete, I still enjoy getting on the track when I can.

I met go_kid_go here on OKCupid, and we we've been dating for over a year now. Thanks, OKCupid!

Anything else you'd like to know, just ask.

From My Facebook Profile: Poly geek in Indianapolis

I like anime, bdsm, belly dancing, Chinese food, comics, cuddling, Dungeons & Dragons, erotica, ethical sluts, gaming, geeks, Icewind Dale II, piercings, politics, polyamory, RICHARD DAWKINS, role-playing, secular humanism, sleep, snuggling.

I am busy, geeky, and poly
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've managed to eliminate most, if not all, of the drama from my life, so now I'm just working on time management and generally trying to take better care of myself. I'm rather happy with my current relationships, and I'm getting slightly better at taking time for myself so I don't always feel like I'm running from one thing to the next without a break.

I still never have another time to clean, journal, or read, but I'm continuing to work on it. I seldom find time for OKCupid, alas, so if you've emailed me and waited forever for a response, I apologize. To make things worse, I just joined a men's derby league, another massive time suck. Aiee! Ah, well. It's fun!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Role-playing and storytelling, apparently. Whether or not I'm good at handling concurrent multiple open relationships depends on who you ask. *grin*
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My very long brown hair.

"Love you sweetie! Your profile is indicative of most everything i love about you... not s3xy enough though. You should put that the second thing people notice is that you are teh s3xor! (Actually the second thing is that you dressed in the dark :P but teh s3xor is definitely third.)


"I'd like to agree with hotarugirl... lol! Although I noticed your eyes before the fact that you dressed in the dark! Hahaha!

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: harry potter, America: The Book, The Dilbert Future, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Lost Girls, Runaways, Seven Years of Highly Defective People, Good Omens, Fugitive from the Cubicle Police, Ethical Slut, Lamb: The Gospel According to Biff, X-Factor.

Movies: Addams Family, Batman, Bound, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, Cool World, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, serenity, Spider-Man, Slither, Princess Bride, Slither, Spaceballs, Star Wars, Transformers, Vanilla Sky, V for Vendetta, X-Men.

TV Shows: The Big Bang Theory, bishoujou senshi sailormoon, buffy the vampire slayer, clerks, Coupling, Dexter, family guy, firefly, Harvey Birdman, House M.D., Mad Men, Robot Chicken, smallville, angel, Battlestar Galactica, Grey's Anatomy, Drawn Together, Star Trek, The Tick, Twin Peaks, The Venture Bros.

Music: barenaked ladies, Benny Benassi, bitch & animal, danny elfman, ELECTRIC SIX, electronica, Jonathan Coulton, Nine Inch Nails, Mötley Crüe, oingo boingo, richard cheese, slydoc, STS9, Suzanne Vega, t.A.T.u., tegan and sara, techno, they might be giants, tony bacala, tori amos, weird al, Gaelic Storm.

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Role-playing (sadly enough), and my relationships. What I need to do next and get done. What journal entries I want to write (only about 2% of which actually get written). Who I need to call/email/text message next whenever I get the time. MUXing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Zonked out from a long work week, snuggling and watching DVDs with someone I love -- these days, usually Ke on Friday nights when she doesn't have to work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a poly. I have concurrent non-monogamous open relationships. I'm also a little kinky, but not as much as my girlfriends are. LOL
You should message me if
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You don't mind waiting a bit to hear back from me. *grin*