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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 29
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Strictly monogamous
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a Painter, a Father, a Drinker.

At heart I'm a minimalist and I think the happiest people are. I work a job I love then go home to those I love. I am the big O in the land of missing pieces. I'm not searching for someone to complete me, I'm offering an open door to whoever wants to join in.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I spend a lot of time embracing my addictions, alcohol, music, and art. I completely immerse myself. If I listen to music I give my full attention, if I paint I give my full focus, if I have a drink I taste it and let the taste linger. I kiss deeply, hug tightly and put my all into all I do. You only get one life, embrace it!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making coffee, forgetting my point, ranting about nothing and cursing like a f**king sailer.

I'm amazing in bed, I can sleep for days.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A lot of people usually notice that I have a different perspective on the world. If anything I love mental sparing or engaging in deep philosophical conversation.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
movies: Mr. Nobody, Requiem for a Dream, Choke, The Bad Seed, Night of the Hunter, Waking Life, Brothers Quay Short Films.

Music: Portishead, Pink Floyd, Black Angels, Sex Pistols, The Rolling Stones, David Bowie, The Beatles, Ramones. I love music
One of my favorites

Books: Bukowski, Chuck Palahniuk, Hunter Thompson. I enjoy reading the paper when I'm in the mood to be pissed off about the world. If you're not pissed off about something your probably not paying attention.

Food: I enjoy cooking, You have to eat for the rest of your life so why not eat well.
Not knowing how to cook is like not knowing how to F**k!!

*If you're lucky I'll cook you the Doc Special. It's my specialty.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) My son and daughter whom I love to no end.

2) Music, Without it I don't think I'd be able to get through my day.

3) My paints.

4) A strong drink (Jack Daniels three fingers, two cubes and a splash of soda for coloring )

5) Intelligent conversation (I love to chat with people who give more than one word answers.)

6) Coffee (Freshly ground none of that instant $#!+)
On occasion i've been known to make turkish coffee when I really need a boost.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People, I find them fascinating. I love watching cars go by and wondering who the F**K are all these people!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't know, usually working unless there's something going on. You tell me, I can take a sick day if there's something worth seeing. Or we can pick up some drinks and watch my friend make music in their make shift studio. They suck but its out of the house and fun yelling out while they're trying to record. We can pick up some Momo's on the way home and watch b-movies till we fall asleep.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think all women have a certain something about them that makes them sexy, Especially if you have something your passionate about.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
1) If your an interesting person.
2) If you think life is to short not to chase happiness.
3) If your also a happy drunk.

4) If sometimes you just want some one to talk to.
(Sometimes it's nice to be able to chat with a random stranger just to kill time or vent about your day because to be honest a lot of times that's exactly what I'm looking for when I'm here)