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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 45-60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 19
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Average build
Buddhism and laughing about it
Has kid(s)
My self-summary
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Nice guy. Smart. Good listener...

I'm told that I suss people out remarkably quickly, and often am able to be of service, if I let them finish their sentence...
What I’m doing with my life
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Spending time with my son. We enjoy disc golf and biking, baking and bbq, movies and hockey!
Very much enjoying my new job, back in tech after a long job search!
Living a recurring dream of being back on a good team.
Keeping in touch with friends of my life, being supported and supportive in turn.
I listen to people. I'm a good listener.
It can be a problem, being a good listener, as some people just love to talk and talk and talk, and then... then they choose to talk some more! For these folks I recommend attending an On and On Anon meeting(!)
Trying to separate my actual factual history from my story about it so that I can transform authentically.
Trying to understand why intelligent, good looking women choose full on dorks!
Trying to get a lock on the horizon...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a pain in the caboose.
Making those I love laugh.
Fixing things: dirt roads, gates, houses, cars, musical instruments, telecom equipment, MRI systems... Can't fix people though...
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm not wearing a fez.
I'm not immortal, and feel it.
I look like somebody else they know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Beneath The Wheel, Magister Ludi, Siddhartha... by Hesse, Tom Sawyer, Another Roadside Attraction, Sometimes a Great Notion, Sufferings in Africa: The Incredible True Story of a Shipwreck, Enslavement, and Survival on the Sahara (one of Abraham Lincoln's favorite books!), Learning to Think Korean, The Subtleties of the Inimitable Mulla Nasrudin, Braindroppings by Carlin...

Brother From Another Planet, King of Hearts

YesWhoDead, Bob Marley and The Wailers
The Band, Dylan, Old Crow Medicine Show, Dr. John, The Kinks, Nils Lofgren, The Tubes, Elvis Costello, Fishbone...

Thai especially, and everything else that's scrumptious...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
An indomitably positive attitude
Quick wits
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How sometimes we take this life for granted.
How we create the world through how we look at it.
And I think to myself, what a wonderful world!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Planning something with my son for the weekend.
Unlaxing, Wabbit!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Is way too private for this forum.
You should message me if
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You live with integrity and joy, consider yourself attractive, and love love...