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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 11:26pm
Mostly vegan
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Former ENFJ turned ENFP

What keeps me going....

Moments of uncontrollable laughter

Road trips

Sewing class

Cotton candy clouds

Rediscovering old music

Sunsets and rises

Anything cooked in my cast iron skillet

Seeing the beauty in every moment

Charles Bradley

Brainstorming my next tattoo

Giant trees

Sucking at playing my banjo

Meeting strange strangers

Moutain views

Plotting my next vacation

Vegan ice cream

That moment when it FINALLY rains

Those winding roads that twist through

Discovering a new ingredient

Rocky beaches

That perfect glass of water after a long workout

Live music

Telling stupid stories

Watching my cat on the prowl

Learning something new

Clear stary nights

Appreciating the little things

Diving head first at every opportunity

Getting it

Perfecting that recipe

Finding that new hiking trail

Revisiting my old neighborhood in west oakland to feed my pack of stray cats

Seeing what color the bay is today

Finding that new food dive

Experiencing different cultures, dispositions and personalities with an open heart and open mind
What I’m doing with my life
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Focusing on eating a plant based, high fiber, whole grain diet, absent of non fiberous sugars. At heart I'm still a meatatarian fat boy who loves his cake, I'll still enjoy these things, just far less often. I just did 35 straight days of this diet as of 4/21, then I finally enjoyed meat and cheese again for a day. That was cleanse mode, but now I've settled in to adhering to the diet at a rate of around 90% which is the standard bar I've set for the rest of my life. (While vacationing in other cities and countries, this diet does not apply)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Filling out all of these questions, so good that I've now erased the vastness known as most of my answers for the sake of being more "mystique". No, I'm not blue, but my beard has been known to shapeshift....
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This question irritates me, what's the point of garnering expectations? I would much rather we read each other's books without hearing someone else's critique of them beforehand.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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It should be noted that I ditched having a tv and video gaming system 12/2012 and I don't plan on purchasing one again, occasionally I still watch some Netflix on my laptop or on my roommates tv in the living room. I've made a good effort to read more, I'll read anything that someone I click with, recommends.

I appreciate everything that is soulful, way to much to list on here.

As far as food goes, I love it all. I'm always looking to try new things and love exploring ethnic cuisine. When traveling abroad, I want to eat any and all street food and exotic fruits and veggies I see.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Great food from all around the world
Good people to share it all with
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What my next tattoo will be and what country I will get it in.

Traveling to places like Turkey, Thailand, Italy, Morocco, Croatia, Peru and New Zealand. (I've decided that from now on I will start traveling to at least 2 new countries every year.)

How to make tasty vegan food
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No day is ever "typical" and why is "Friday" more important than any other day of the week?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'd like to get in "shirtless shape" by Halloween, so I can use my torso as the human half of a centaur costume
You should message me if
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You heard my heart beating cause you were in the darkness too and you'd like me to stay in the darkness with you...

Or maybe/more likely you just wanna have fun doing something silly and/or active and/or food related together