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Babastudley

60 / M / Straight / Single

Brooklyn, New York

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What the F.....?

Oct 3, 2009

This evening I received some disturbing mail from a member of this site. Unfortunately she had a very negative experience with another member on this site and insisted that I was he.

I denied any knowledge of this man and had only sent her a wink because I liked her photos and her profile essay. I knew I didn't fit the standards of the object of her desires.

Though she clearly intended to hurt my feelings and exact some sort of verbal revenge on this culprit. I made an attempt to reason with her to no avail. Subsequent to the name calling, it became clear to me that there are quite a few people in cyberspace who are "damaged goods" and need to seek counseling for the maladies.

I've winked at a variety of women on this and other sites, as it is my way of acknowledging their individual beauty, intelligence and/or wit, whether I meet their ideal mate requirements or not. Never have I received a response like the one I received from this woman.

I pray that she finds some solace before she engages another man in a romance.

As for now there is nothing else to report.

This evening I received some disturbing mail from a member ofthis site. Unfortunately she had a very negative experience withanother member on this site and insisted that I was he.

I denied any knowledge of this man and had only sent her a winkbecause I liked her photos and her profile essay. I knew I didn'tfit the standards of the object of her desires.

Though she clearly intended to hurt my feelings and exact somesort of verbal revenge on this culprit. I made an attempt to reasonwith her to no avail. Subsequent to the name calling, it becameclear to me that there are quite a few people in cyberspace who are"damaged goods" and need to seek counseling for the maladies.

I've winked at a variety of women on this and other sites, as itis my way of acknowledging their individual beauty, intelligenceand/or wit, whether I meet their ideal mate requirements ornot. Never have I received a response like the one I receivedfrom this woman.

I pray that she finds some solace before she engages another manin a romance.

As for now there is nothing else to report.

What the F.....?
An image of BostonLover I have been verbally attacked by a member of this site, too, and for no other reason than I am a liberal and voted for Obama. There are some whackos out there. Best to just leave them alone and block them if necessary.

BostonLover commented on Oct 3, 2009