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33 M Chicago, IL

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:58pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Swedish (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Partner sought for peripatetic carousing, philosophic conservation, intimate connection, joy, love. Success may be favored by intelligence, adventurousness, and kindness, as with most things in life. Responses will be provided to all reasonable inquiries.

Things I like-
books, people, conversation, social justice, tea, coffee shops, biking, cc skiing, mapping out Chicago neighborhoods, diners, road trips, board games
What I’m doing with my life
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I help people try not to lose their houses in foreclosures. I'm also going to school part-time to get a degree in public policy
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
organization, creative thinking, trivia contests, Halloween costumes, scavenger hunts
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm logical, perennially optimistic, and pretty much never get mad
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Jon Steinbeck, Tolstoy, Mark Twain, Kurt Vonnegut, Plato, Ursula Le Guin, Eric Larson, Bill Bryson

TV: Game of Thrones; I, Claudius; Community; the Wire; Star Trek (various); Freaks and Geeks

Music: OK, seriously, looking at bands people list, I realize I don't know anything about music, and I'm old because the band names just look like random words strung together. Neutral Milk Hotel? Fine. Here are my favorite band:
-Ketchup Ketchup Ramble Poop Tea Cozy; Palpitating Orange Lava Maze; Doctor Martin F. Teeseburger, Optometrist; ABBA
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Time travel, public policy, how to expand the CTA, what I would do if I was caught in a zombie outbreak
You should message me if
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-you're a nerd, or don't mind dating one
-your optimism overcomes your pessimism
-you've got a neat tattoo you want to show off
-you like to watch improv, old movies, or plays
-you've heard of Journey to the End of the Night and think it's great!
-you start a new book as soon as you finish the old one
-you think traditional gender roles are silly/repressive (boo holding the door open for women, yay holding the door open for everybody!)
-you are sex-positive
-your trying to make the world better, in some way or another