I have a tendency to treat relationships in a similar manner. Im very honest about where I am in a relationship. I'm one of those guys who doesn't HAVE to be in a relationship to feel comfortable in life, so I don't pressure things to work out either way. If it was meant to be, then we will have a fantastic time. If it's not meant to be, then it's best to let each other know and move on.
That being said, I'm here looking for that one special lady for me. I've been told by my friends (one of whom got married thanks to OkCupid btw) that I do it all wrong with selective emails... so if you get an email from me, it's because there is something about you that got my attention ;) So say hi back!