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44 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:43am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English, Japanese (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Once upon a time, a good man, romantic and kind, paused in the midst of a satisfying life to reflect upon all that he had to share in a partnership with a kindred spirit.

He had lived in such places as Tokyo, San Francisco, Seattle, Chicago, DC and Manhattan and had earned degrees in law and business. He had swum from Alcatraz, finished two triathlons, cycled through Ireland, driven cross-country many times, come face-to-face with poisonous lion fish while scuba diving in the Red Sea. No slick jet setter, he was imperfect but authentic, loyal and passionate with a thirst for new experiences. Of course, he enjoyed cozy home evenings.

He read Eckart Tolle, Joseph Campbell, Hesse and Seuss, meditated, Ohm'ed and asana’ed, while also exploring liaisons that sparked his more sensual interests. Still, he thought there must be something more -- and that there might be a likeminded liberated positive woman, smart and witty, athletic and sexy, craving something more too. He followed advice to the curious world of online dating in the hope of finding a co-adventurer.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
- Working for a tech-media firm wearing many hats,
- Writing when I can, and
- Seeking to get my start up launched.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Making you laugh
- I probably know something about things you're curious about
- I have strong hands (give great massage)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've a dimple, a nice smile, and sincere positive energy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Avocados, sushi, smoked salmon, chocolate, cold brew coffee, tapas/sangria, whiskey & blues, speakeasies, autumn leaves & apple cider, margaritas on a sandy beach, greenery after a hard rain; a starry sky, vineyard tours, brunch, poker with the men, watching my dog Asher play ..

Daily Show, Colbert Report, Bill Maher, Groundhog Day (anything with Bill Murray), NPR (Fresh Air, Diane Rehm, Wait Wait), Charlie Rose, Marc Maron's WTF,

Healthy food/fitness/nutrition. Rarely processed foods, grains and sugars but not militant about it (darn sweet tooth!).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Family and friends;
- Mouth watering food and intoxicating spirits;
- The great feeling after hiking, biking, tennis'ing, working out;
- Planning and pursuing adventures;
- Personal growth and a purposeful life;
- Passionate playfulness.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
being all that i can be
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My Friday nights are atypical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A 48 y.o. former UWSider now renting an apartment near his Stamford area job. I often meet City friends for weekday dinners at 7pm and brunch, entire weekends too, and could easily move back down if things work out. Please imagine I'm next door, cause I could be.
You should message me if
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You're non-pretentious and non-judgmental, actively into fitness/health, adventurous, smart, slender, edgy, sexy and stylish. I confess a weakness for a woman who rocks a bikini and little black dress.

Would you dress up for Halloween, cook and throw some dinner parties, escape to a tropical beach, bike through wine country, pick apples, play tennis with me?

You recognize a good man with mad partner potential when you've read his profile.