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44 Yonkers, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 37–46
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Entertainment / Media
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English, Japanese (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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4 Second Version: Adventurous, fit, smart, romantic and edgy seeks the same!
Once upon a time, a gentleman with edges, integrity and honest intentions paused in the midst of a satisfying life to reflect upon his experience and hopes for entering into a partnership with a kindred spirit. 🙇

He'd lived far and wide (Tokyo, San Francisco, Seattle, Chicago, DC and Manhattan) and had earned degrees in law and business. He'd swum from Alcatraz, did two tri's, cycled through Ireland, come face-to-face with poisonous lion fish while scuba diving in the Red Sea and nimbly navigated Trader Joe/Wholefood's aisles. He'd read Tolle, Campbell, Hesse and Seuss, meditated, Ohm'ed and asana’ed, while also exploring liaisons that sparked his more prurient interests. No materialistic jet setter, he was grounded, faithful and passionate with a thirst for new experiences and companionship. 👫

Still, he thought there must be something more -- and that there might be a likeminded liberated bewitching woman with wanderlust, edge, wit and spirit craving more too. 👩

So, are you also ready to meet your best friend/lover/co-adventurer to create something fun and amazing?! ☀️🌙⭐️
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working for a boutique tech-media firm wearing many hats; Writing when I can; Seeking to get my sports-app start up launched.👔💼

Professionally and emotionally stable, seeking to live life passionately, compassionately, and purposefully.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being interesting and interested, sharing things I know and making you laugh; I have strong hands (give great massage); being an exceptionally authentic, affectionate, romantic, fun and playful partner. 😊
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've a dimple, a nice smile, and sincere positive energy. ⚡️
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Avocados, sushi, smoked salmon, dark chocolate, cold brew coffee, tapas/sangria, whiskey & blues, speakeasies, autumn leaves & apple cider, margaritas on a sandy beach, greenery after a hard rain; aged rum; a starry sky, vineyard tours, brunch, poker with the men, watching my dog Asher play. 🐶

Daily Show, Colbert Report, Bill Maher, Groundhog Day (anything with Bill Murray), NPR (Fresh Air, Diane Rehm, Wait Wait), Charlie Rose, Marc Maron's WTF.

Alchemist; Places You’ll Go; Power of Now/New Earth; Power of Myth; Siddhartha; Four Agreements. 🌎

Healthy food/fitness/nutrition. Rarely eat processed foods, grains and sugars but not militant about it (darn sweet tooth!).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Cliche I know, but hopefully you. 💘
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
For strictly search purposes (so you could actually see this profile and make up your mind), I put 44 in Manhattan but I’m 49 in Stamford. I recently took a job at a cool media-tech firm in the area where I’m renting after living 7 years in West Village/UWS,. My friends/social life is in Manhattan so I’m there several evenings, every weekend and could easily move back if things work out. Please imagine I'm next door, cause I could be. 🌹

I'm silly enough to dance with my dog alone in my apartment (well, i dance and he watches with concern).
You should message me if
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You're non-pretentious and non-judgmental, actively into fitness/health and athletic. Ideally, you’re also whipsmart, passionate and match my mischievous spirit along with your own charm, commitment to growth and capacity to love. Maybe you rock lulu lemons, little black dresses and have dazzled on occasion. 👠

Would you dress up for Halloween, cook and throw some dinner parties, escape to tropical beaches, bike through wine country, hike nature trails, take dance classes, pick apples in an orchard, meander through museums or old cities, stroll the zoo/botanical gardens/Met or Natural History, indulge in impromptu improv conversation anywhere/anytime, roll dice in Vegas, undertake a cat burgling jewel heist caper on French Riviera, consider a Disney half-marathon through the theme park, play tennis and/or scuba dive with me? Or maybe just stay home, order in and netfilx it. I may be one of the most truly romantic affectionate men you might meet. 🌴

Edgier experiences have included ... well, If we'll be sharing a life and a bed for the next 30 years shouldn't we make it fun. 🔥