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44 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:24pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English, Japanese (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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A former UWSider who has lived in Tokyo, SF, Chicago, DC, Seattle and most recently living/working near Stamford for the past 18 months. I often meet City friends for weekday dinners at 7pm and brunch on entire weekends too, could relocate if things work out so just imagine I'm next door, cause I could be.
I'm 48, not 44, and in excellent vibrant energy/shape. I haven't been willing to "settle" and I continue to seek the grounded, witty, athletic confident slender/athletic beauty who wants an similarly great co-adventurer to explore and live life happily ever after with.

I'm athletic and fit .. I regularly work out, improving my serve and slice, have swum from Alcatraz, finished 2 Triathlons, a Tough Mudder, and nimbly navigate the Whole Food/Trader Joe/Fairway aisles.

I'm fun and adventurous .. have kissed the Blarney Stone while cycling through Ireland, come face-to-face with poisonous lionfish while scuba-diving in the Red Sea, spent 5 months backpacking through SE Asia, etc.

And, I'm truly grounded and positive, super affectionate and doting, and have evolved into a man my dad & mom would be proud of. My bookshelf holds The Alchemist, Siddhartha, Four Agreements, Shel Silverstein's "The Missing Piece", Dr. Seuss' "Oh, The Places You'll Go", Joseph Campbell, Tolle's "Power of Now" and I will challenge and help you to be your best.

I look like my photos, some say better with great energy. And, though I have the requisite gentlemanly qualities (honesty, integrity, reliability, chivalry), I possess a passionate mischievous edgier spirit too.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working for a tech-media firm wearing many hats and finding that somehow, I've become a pretty cool, thoughtful responsible evolved man who is still fun and adventurous.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making you laugh

I probably know at least a little bit about the things you find interesting and can teach you all kinds of things you're curious about

I have strong hands (give great massage)
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've a dimple, a nice smile, that I work out and that I have sincere positive energy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Avocados, sushi, smoked salmon, chocolate, cold brew coffee, tapas/sangria, whiskey & blues, autumn leaves & apple cider, margaritas on a sandy beach, greenery after a hard rain; a starry sky, vineyard tours, brunch, poker with the men, watching my dog Asher play ..

Daily Show, Colbert Report, Bill Maher, Groundhog Day, anything with Bill Murray, NPR, Charlie Rose, Marc Maron's WTF,

Healthy food/fitness/nutrition. I've given up processed foods, really reduced grains and sugars but am hardly militant about it (ie, hard to resist frozen yogurt with m&ms, etc.).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Loyal loving family and friends;
- Mouth watering food and intoxicating spirits;
- The great feeling after hiking, biking, tennis'ing, asana'ing, working out;
- Planning and pursuing adventures;
- Personal growth and a purposeful life;
- Adventurous, sensual, passionate playfulness,
and, peace, love and understanding …

Hopefully you
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sucking the marrow out of life, leaving it a better place than I found it, and the six things I could never do without …
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My Friday nights are atypical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Naughty while still having very honorable intentions.
You should message me if
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My ideal co-adventurer/partner/friend/lover is positive, non-pretentious and non-judgmental, actively into fitness/health, adventurous, smart, slender, sexy and stylish. If you look breathtaking in your bikini and little black dress then that's icing on the cake.

Would you dress up for Halloween, throw some dinner parties, bike through wine country, pick apples, play tennis with me?

You recognize a good man with mad partner potential when you've read his profile.