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36 San Diego, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:52pm
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Post grad
Wants kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm on here because I am looking to expand my horizons to find someone who can challenge me and enjoy the amazing wonders that life has to offer living in this great city. I'm over the traditional channels of meeting girls in bars as it hasn't been extremely fruitful for me. Hopefully this site helps me connect with quality people and perhaps the girl I've been holding out for. I've never been married and I don't have children, but I am definitely at the point in my life I am ready for someone to complete me. I'm not the kind of guy that needs someone to make me happy, but being single has definitely lost a lot of it's luster.

I'm a fan of an active lifestyle. I'm always down to camp, hike, beach cruise, snowboard, travel, etc...I've been to Europe twice for solo backpacking trips and can't reccomend it enough. I love music and I've played the drums since I was nine. I know how to treat a woman and make her feel special. I am loyal and protective; I don't let just anyone in my circle, but If you make the cut, I have your back no matter what. I grew up in a small town in NorCal, so I know how to make boring situations fun. I make myself laugh all the time and love spreading that to others.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a recently received my masters degree in clinical therapy from SDSU. I am working at a non-profit, providing support to individuals and families living with autism.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
quoting movies...
witty comebacks...
discovering new music...
playing the drums...
making people laugh...
making new friends...
seeing both sides of a story...
making a mean cup of coffee...
picking out thoughtful presents...
creating a romantic evening...
making the best of any situation...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I would say my gregarious nature. People gravitate towards and feel comfortable around me quickly. Perhaps this is because I carry my head high, I'm not afraid of a firm handshake and I look people in the eyes when I talk to them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like things with substance.

Books: I don't read as much as I'd like to but anything with a good message or plot line will keep my attention. Big Fan of Malcolm Gladwell, Cormac McCarthy, Jack Kerouac, Aldous Huxley and John Steinbeck to name a few...

Movies: I love anything by Scorcese, Kubrick, Tarantino, Lynch, Ritchie, Lucas and Spielberg...Mob Movies, psychological thrillers and Horror flicks are probably among my favorites, but nothing beats a solid comedy.

Shows: I'm not a big tv fan, but I pretty much love every series that HBO, Showtime and AMC have released. I try to catch Sportscenter daily and am always down to watch a game of some sort and toss back a few cold ones...

Music: I literally love it all...I grew up on classic rock and branched out from there...went through virtually every genre possible...80's, 90's, reggae, grunge, alternative, indie, punk, metal, hardcore, rap, underground hip hop, jazz, oldies, trip hop, acid jazz, electronica, Ambient, dubstep, etc...I'm sure I can introduce you to something new that you'd dig...

Food: I'm not extremely picky on cuisine. My Favorites are Mexican, Itialian, Thai and Sushi...I'm always down to try a new spot and feel I have a solid handle on hidden gems around town.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Perspective from the elderly
2. Spontaneous travel
3. Constant challenge
4. Nature's treasures
5. Personal interaction
6. Occasional indulgence
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Random fun facts to expand my ever growing mental database of useless knowledge.

Did you know...
Warwick Davis who played Willow was also Wicket from "Star Wars" and the Leprechaun from "The Leprechaun"?

Bob Dylan's real name is Robert Allen Zimmerman

The Happy Planet Index (an index of human well-being and environmental impact) ranked Costa Rica the number one country in the world in their most recent pole
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out and about shooting pool over a few beers, checking out a live show or packing up the 4Runner for an impromptu weekend excursion.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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The movie Rudy always makes me tear up.
You should message me if
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You see something intriguing on my profile and are a low maintenance girl who likes to smile and enjoy the simple things in life.