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GentlyUsedMale

43 M Canton, MI

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
$70,000–$80,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Instead of going to Starbucks, I make my own coffee, yell my name out incorrectly, and then light a $5 bill on fire.

I hate defining myself by my job. So lets not say I am a Information Technology Systems Administrator. I just do that to pay bills. I rather cook but that does not pay the bills that well.

I really love working with food. Local and sustainable, farmers I can visit and call a friend. Old world techniques and new world flare. I love to visit new restaurants and markets. I love to cook for people.

I am also a big fan of reinventing Detroit for artist, musicians, chefs and other creative types.

I'm Downton Abbey in the streets, Game of Thrones in the sheets. I consider myself pretty adventurous in the bedroom, but eye contact is where I draw the line (that is a joke ladies).

I haven't seen any of the Fast and Furious movies but I once had to speed up to get through a yellow light so I get it.

Hero's are Neil DeGrasse Tyson, MLK, Michael Pollan, Elizabeth Warren, Bernie Sanders, Mr. Rogers, Temple Grandon, Edward Snowden and decent everyday people.

In my 20s I did a lot of couch surfing. But that all ended after I was attacked by a couch shark.
What I’m doing with my life
Have worked in IT (Yes I am part nerd) for many years but now I am switching to focus on starting a food market based on high quality, locally produced products. No GMO's, HFCS, Factory animals or pretension. I am a serious food nerd with a focus on sustainability and quality. Also kicking my self in the ass to get into shape. Not as in I will be posing with my abs showing in a bathroom mirror type shape, but general good health.
I’m really good at
Fixing things, cooking, computers, making people laugh, pulling my weight, finding fun things to do, cuddling and kissing. Did I mention cooking? Yes I will cook for you, yes it will be better than what 99.9% of people here can do for you. I do hold hands on the first date...yeah I know that might be fast but I do it anyways!
The first things people usually notice about me
My uncanny resemblance to Morgan Freeman.

My looks are often described as "rugged" and "weathered" and "what the hell happened to you when you were younger?"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Larousse Gastronomique, Anything by Cormac McCarthy, Anything by James Michener, Ender's Game , Sho-Gun, The Stand, Shock Doctrine, American Gods, Good Night Gorilla, Green Eggs and Ham...Oh and that pamphlet "Woman can abuse men too".

Movies: Akira Kurosawa Movies, Wes Anderson Movies, Fitzcaraldo, BBC version of Hitchhikers Guide, Eat Drink Man Woman, Joe Dirt, Gummo and that Elementary School classic "Red Asphalt".

Shows: I try not to watch TV too much. Walking Dead, Dr. Who, Anthony Bourdain, Iron Chef, Portlandia if I must watch...

Music...The music that we are not spoon fed. Joy Division, Portishead, Pixies, Brian Eno, My Bloody Valentine, New Order, the Cure, Aphex Twin, LCD Soundsystem, Underworld, Mumford and Sons, Arcade Fire, Interpol, Saint Germain, Jeff Mills, DJ Shadow, Nitzer Ebb, Nouvelle Vague, Led Zeppelin, Radiohead, Underworld, Kraftwerk, James Brown, Insert "Obscure Bands names that make me look more hip" here, Detroit Techno/House and Kid Koala.

Food... I will try almost everything once. Love spicy food, ethnic food, and local raised food. I love to cook for other people while they just sit there and talk to me. Cooking is Zen. I am a bit of a Snob though, I refuse to eat at National Chains. I love supporting local businesses. Once in your life you may need a Doctor or a Lawyer...but three times a day you need a farmer. I am not a farmer, but they have my respect. I cheat once in a bit with Pizza rolls...i love the way the molten hot ones burn a hole in your lip.

I like American Food, Chinese Food, Korean Food, Mexican food, Cuban Food, Canadian Food, Brazilian Food, French Food, German Food, Italian Food, Spanish Food, Belgian Food, Irish Food, British Food, Japanese Food, Vietnamese Food...I can do this all damn day long! I just don't like Swedish food except for those Red Gummy Fish.

Eating a turkey burger is like watching "Goodfellas" on basic cable.
The six things I could never do without
The warmth of a caring person
Electricity and all the fruit of its wonders.
Top 6 list
Family
Taste Buds
Music

What the hell is it with you woman and Chapstick. They must put crack in that stuff?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why is it so hard just to get your kids to say "bitch please" and "bitch thank you".

How one person can make life more tolerable and pleasant for those around him.

Always a bummer when a woman has a picture of her niece in her online profile because I am not ready to uncle some other guy's kid.
On a typical Friday night I am
Recreating civil war battles in the streets of Detroit by myself...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
They say sex is 90% mental, which is why I quiz my lover with light trivia during our lovemaking.

You can get your apartment pretty clean if you're smart about your dares in "Truth or Dare."

I really thought I'd have my skull-shaped, volcano fortress by now.

I had sex once and I really like it. I might ask you for it too eventually (Usually after the appetizers) .
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–53
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to laugh, eat well and seek adventure in life.

You are willing to learn CPR and the Heimlich Maneuver.

Common Sense is your super power.

You promise not to send me pictures of your junk.

There is nothing more beautiful than two people in a kitchen cooking, that know how the other thinks. They know each others movements, direction and pace. They know when to talk and know when to concentrate. It is like a tango but with a glorious return for more senses that just touch, hearing and sight. You get to use every sense in a creation of something wonderful for each other. Where else do you get that?