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24 M Tempe, AZ

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–27
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:44pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
When drinking
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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I think I want to go to Prague next year. I'd like to find a few people to go with me. Hit me up if that sounds like fun.

"Diane, I'm holding in my hand a small box of chocolate bunnies."

Every few months or so I feel like I need to update this (the Special Agent Dale Cooper quote stays, of course, but the rest has to go). So here goes:

I graduated from ASU May of 2013. I live a simple life. I work part time at a job I love, the rest of the time I'm drinking coffee, writing, reading, working on a new project, watching Boston Legal, or enjoying the company of some of my wonderful friends.

My writing is very important to me. Sometimes I struggle with it. It can eat up a lot of my time, too, when I'm on a roll.

I tend to like people more than I tend to dislike them. I want the people around me to be happy. I like to be the person who makes other people happy. I'm usually a social butterfly, but I sometimes disappear from the world and spend a few days as a hermit.

I like karaoke, whiskey, British panel shows, Thai food, dogs, rain, bad things, traveling, long conversations, board games, books, poems (bad or good), David Bowie, laughter, kindness, affection, beauty, nights with big bright moons... I used to describe myself as an "aesthete" and it's still not very far off.

I'd like to meet someone awesome. Someone open minded. Someone generous. Someone kind. Someone fun. Someone funny. Someone bold. Someone with a dog. Someone beautiful. Someone inspiring. Someone who listens well and speaks well. Someone who reads. Someone who is happy more often than not. Someone who is direct. Someone who cares about other people. Someone who likes to dance. Someone who wants to travel. Someone who loves art. Someone who will watch Twin Peaks with me. Someone who knows how to be kissed. Someone who believes in herself. Someone with ambition. Someone charming. Someone impossibly wonderful and perfect in every way.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being a total cliche (I'm waiting tables and trying to write a novel).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing stories.
Drinking coffee.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes...oh, who are we kidding! My ass of course.

That I talk a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I usually enjoy making lists, but I'll be here forever. So every time I log in I'm going to add one more to each list.

Books: Ender's Game, Lilith, For Whom the Bell Tolls, The Picture of Dorian Gray, Phantastes, The Ghosts of Belfast,

Movies: Star Wars, In Bruges, Reservoir Dogs, Intolerable Cruelty, The Lost Boys, Seven Psychopaths,

TV: Twin Peaks, Arrested Development, Boston Legal, Battlestar Galactica, House, Elementary,

Music: Tom Waits, Arvo Part, Queen, Pink Floyd, The Who, The Police,

Alcoholic Beverages: Gin and Tonic, Whiskey, Hemingways, White Russians, Pinot Noir, Irish Coffee,

Board Games: Diplomacy, Settlers of Catan, Battlestar Galactica: The Board Game, Chess, Spy Alley, 221 B Baker Sreet,

Superheroes (+ heroines, villains, villainesses, sidekicks, etc): Phantom X, Deadpool, Batman, Mysterion, Harley Quinn, Word Girl,

Gods: Anubis, Bacchus, Erato, Morrigan, Aphrodite, Death,

Painters: Salvador Dali, Marc Chagall, Caravaggio, Alexander Calder, Auguste Rodin, Kandinsky,

Authors: Hemingway, Wilde, Twain, Poe, Fitzgerald, Hunter S. Thompson,

Places: Paris, the grass under large oak trees, Gold Bar Espresso, Seattle, pillow forts, comfy couches,

Words: Cliche, Troubadour, Embalm, Maudlin, Deranged, Emblematic,
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, coffee, conversations, whiskey, muses, secrets.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whatever project I'm currently working on.

People, and what they're thinking, what motivates them and drives them.

I also over think things. I over analyze. My mind wanders.

When I will meet the next exciting new stranger. I have a voracious appetite for engaging conversation and raucous amusement.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Thursday night is my Friday night. And on Thursday night I'm singing karaoke with my friends at my favorite dive bar.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
No, you'll have to ask me.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're dynamite with a laser beam.

You're intrigued. You want to tell me your secrets. You want to read something I've written. You're bored. You're scared. You like going on adventures. You like getting lost. You want someone to talk to about something amazing or something awful. You like coffee and good conversation. You're interesting. You're kind.

You have something to get off your chest.