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Bala_spirit

30 F Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 27–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:32pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Sanskrit (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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After a while you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul and you learn...
That love doesn't mean leaning and company doesn't always mean security.
And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts and presents aren't promises.
And you begin to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes ahead
With the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child. ..
And you learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans and futures have a way of falling down in midsight.
After a while you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much. ..
So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure, you really are strong, and you really do have worth...
And you learn
And you learn
With every goodbye, you learn.

--Veronica Shofstall

And then.... You have some fucking fun!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Going back to school... pre reqs for a graduate program in occupational therapy, YAY!
Helping people feel beautiful and comfortable in their skin.
Climbing things
Yoga
Dancing as often as possible
Being a decent human being
Having as much fun as I can!
Preparing for the collapse of the man
Laughing out loud... Like almost tooo loud, but good.

I'm really into open communication about most everything and as much as I think you still need to play the game to win it, please don't be an asshole; respect someone enough to share how you think or feel.

Be the change!

And: PLUR
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Slacklining; like tightrope walking but slack. I enjoy dancing, doing tricks and sometimes I try it 400ft in the air!
- Being honest
- Holistic health related subjects
- Riding my bike with no hands for lengthy amounts of time makes me very happy! I am often dance riding... Potholes are not my friend!
- Laughing at myself
- Yoga - can you be good at yoga? I'm trained to teach but never have.
- Cleaning
- Making messes
- Climbing rocks and trees!!
- Helping out
- Procrastinating
- Cuddling!
- Self sufficiency
- Fixing stuff and things

And apparently making lists...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been told that my eyes are quite lovely and that my laugh is quite unique and infectious.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love me some:
Organic veggies
Bass music!
Chai tea
Coconuty things
Pad kee mao
Avocados
DARK chocolate with salt and almonds
Tequila!
Red wine
I am a food snob in the most relaxed of ways. I prefer local, sustainably sourced, healthier foods, but I am flexible; we are all going to die someday, so have some bacon and poutine and live a little!

I don't own a tv but I enjoy the comfort of Netflix when it's all nasty outside and my hermit ways set in.

I enjoy music that gets me moving, thinking and or that fits the moment.

XXYYXX, Sbtrkt, Little Dragon, James Blake, Machinedrum, Emancipator, Trentmoller, ESKMO, Cat Power, Purity Ring, St. Vincent, Bibio, Animal Collective, M83, Tool, Fiona Apple, The Mars Volta, Radiohead, Poliça, Haerts, Fleet Foxes, Yaysayer, Thievery Corportaion, Bonobo, Band of Horses, Banks, SOHN, Gang Gang Dance, Beach House, Tune-Yards, Phantogram, Ghost Loft, Grizzly Bear....

Holographic Universe- Talbot
The wheels of Life- Anodea Judith
Half the sky - Kristof & WuDunn
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Science
Leggings
Clean canteen
Laughter
Coconuts
Wilderness areas
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
NOW
Other dimensions
States of consciousness
Skin
My next adventure
Plant medicines....
How to love accept myself completely
What you might be thinking...?
What to cook for dinner
How to manifest my desire to travel more!
Whether or not this online dating thing is a huge waste of time... or an amazing opportunity to meet people I might otherwise not.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
AT home; Out dancing/socializing; driving to some adventure...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm so Portland, that I would rather smell your body odor than Axe or Old Spice.
If I don't like the way you smell it's probably not meant to be, at least biologically.

Check out how toxic your deodorant might be: http://www.ewg.org/skindeep/

Shocking what the FDA doesn't protect us from...

Oh and I am actually blonde.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
YOU:
Made it this far

Are physically, emotionally, and mentally acute and prepared for life.

Communicate well

Have shared interests, like say climbing, dancing, hiking, permaculture, eating amazing food, or something to teach, that you would like to share with me.

Think for yourself and are willing to step outside the boxes that conventional society has set up for us...

Know how to appreciate a woman's body.

Dance like nobody is watching and love like you have never been hurt.

Know where your food comes from and how to cook it.

Have a clean bathroom

Want to be pals and adventure!