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Bala_spirit

30 F Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:40pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
After a while you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul and you learn...
That love doesn't mean leaning and company doesn't always mean security.
And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts and presents aren't promises.
And you begin to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes ahead
With the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child. ..
And you learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans and futures have a way of falling down in midsight.
After a while you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much. ..
So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure, you really are strong, and you really do have worth...
And you learn
And you learn
With every goodbye, you learn.

-Veronica Shofstall
What I’m doing with my life
Going back to school... again.. pre reqs for Grad school, YAY!
Extracting comedones, slangin' serums and keeping your lady's bits fresh... You're welcome. ;-)
Climbing things
Dancing as often as possible
Being a decent human being
Having as much fun as I can!
Preparing for the collapse of the man ;-)
I’m really good at
- Slacklining; like tightrope walking but slack. I enjoy dancing, doing tricks and sometimes I try it 400ft in the air!
- Being honest
- Health related subjects
- Laughing at myself; always entertained!
- Cleaning
- Esthetics
- Climbing
- Helping
- Procrastinating; working on this...
- Cuddling! I'm in charge of spooning at BM this year... But no forks allowed!
- Eye contact
- Being self sufficient
- Fixing things: car, bike, house, stuff and things
And apparently making lists...
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been told that my eyes are quite lovely and that my laugh is quite unique and infectious.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love me some:
Organic veggies
Bass heavy music
Chai tea
anything coconut related
Thai and Vietnamese foods
Soul music
Avocados
DARK chocolate
Good tequila
Red wine
I am a food snob in the most relaxed of ways. I prefer local, sustainably sourced, healthier foods, but I am flexible; we are all going to die someday, so have some bacon and poutine and live a little!
Movies or pop culture are not something I really follow or quote like some people. Although I enjoy the comfort of Netflix when it's all nasty outside and my hermit ways set in.

I enjoy music that gets me moving, thinking and or that fits the moment.
Some examples: XXYYXX, Sbtrkt, Little Dragon, James Blake, Machinedrum, Emancipator, Trentmoller, ESKMO, Cat Power, Purity Ring, St. Vincent, Bibio, Animal Collective, M83, Tool, The Mars Volta, Radiohead, Poliça, Haerts, Fleet Foxes, Yaysayer, Thievery Corportaion, Bonobo, Band of Horses, Banks, SOHN, Gang Gang Dance, Beach House, Tune-Yards, Phantogram, Ghost Loft, Grizzly Bear....

I can read! But I have a problem with starting too many at a time.
The six things I could never do without
Music
Farmers
Water
Fresh Air
Laughter
Good friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Other dimensions
States of consciousness
Skin
My next adventure
Plant medicines....
How to love accept myself completely
What you might be thinking...?
What to cook for dinner
How to manifest my dreams and travel more!
Whether or not this online dating thing is a huge waste of time... or an amazing opportunity to meet people I might otherwise not.
On a typical Friday night I am
AT home; Out dancing/socializing; driving to some adventure...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I would rather smell your body odor than Axe or Old Spice. For real!
If I don't like the way you smell it's probably not meant to be, at least biologically.

Check out how toxic your deodorant is: http://www.ewg.org/skindeep/

Shocking what the FDA doesn't protect us from...
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 27–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
YOU:

Are physically, emotionally, and mentally acute and prepared for life.

Communicate openly about your intentions and or lack there of.

Have shared interests, like say climbing, dancing, hiking, permaculture, eating amazing food, or something to teach, that you would like to share with me.

Think for yourself and are willing to step outside the boxes that conventional society has set up for us...

Know how to appreciate a woman's body.

Dance like nobody is watching and love like you have never been hurt.

Know where your food comes from and how to cook it.

Have a clean bathroom!

Think I am a sexy beast! ;-)