Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Optimistic, approachable, excellent conversationalist (if I do say
so myself) seeks same! I know what you're thinking - she's gonna
talk my ear off. But conversation is the fuel that powers seduction
and connection. A couple that can hit it off with words, ideas and
emotion can ride a relationship from the fun initial flirting to
the depths of crises and the heights of intimacy.
At mid-life, certain trajectories have panned out as envisioned,
some not, and some new shoots sprouted completely unexpectedly. All
this life experience has made me more open to ambiguity and taking
I immigrated to the US as a child. I was born in Jakarta, Indonesia
where I went to the same elementary school as President Barack
Obama (not at the same time, he's older). In the US, I grew-up in
the leafy suburbs of DC but moved to San Francisco after grad
school and one too many winters. I now live in North Beach, a
family focused community I adore.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I juggle my time between having fun with my sons, a great job
helping banks do the right thing, and a few passion projects. I
took a leap of faith on myself and escaped corporate America to
study screenwriting. I went back to corporate America (with super
flex hours this time around) but I still tinker with my movie
scripts on a daily basis.
And lately picking up a thread from my idealistic graduate school
days, I've become involved in organizing beautifying projects in
North Beach including supporting the new library, playground, and
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Holding my breath underwater.
Staying calm under pressure (is that related to the above?).
Inspiring others to participate in beautifying their
Travelling off the beaten bath to equatorial tropical islands and
quaint French villages.
Making apple turnovers.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My short hair. I don't look my age. I have really cool toe nail
My super dry sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Anything Peter Morgan writes (Frost/Nixon, The Queen, The Other
Boleyn Girl) - he can transform political figures into sympathetic
Tough-Guy movies of the 70s - Cool Hand Luke, Dog Day Afternoon,
Midnight Cowboy (this might be 1980), Serpico
Saturday Night Live, since I was 12 years old my favorite TV
My meals: simple, organic. Crave meat sometimes. Sweet tooth.
Music tendencies: classic rock, Rolling Stones, Led Zepplin, Tom
Petty (bands with sexy skinny crooners)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Kiss my kids good-night
Outlets for creative expression
Oxygen (ironically since I like holding my breath under
That's only four - guess I don't need much.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Making the world a better place for my kids.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I've been divorced 7 years and share custody 50/50. So every other
weekend I hang out wirh my super musical 13-year old twin boys. But
the every other weekend when I'm single - I like to nerd out and
write, read scripts or analyze movies. Sometimes I'll go to happy
hour with girlfriends. Or open my home and entertain my friends
with a home cooked meal.
A word about my kids. It takes me a long time to introduce them
into the picture. They have a supportive Dad. I'm dating for me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I pretend I can sing and dance like Beyonce in the shower
You should message me if
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