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35 M San Diego, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:16am
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Other, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Army raised, college educated, artistically honed, Navy trained, blissfully wed to Charcharkat. Check her out, seriously! She's awesome!

Me? I'm an artist and a nerd. Not a huge sports fan. I'd rather Ippon somebody than watch a game, which has happened before. (Bonus points to those who know Ippon.)
Currently in SD and looking for people to explore the city with me.
What I’m doing with my life
Rogering up.
I'm a work in progress. I devote a lot of time on self improvement; working out, judo, archery, boxing, etc.
I'm also taking courses online working toward a 2nd BA and hopefully becoming a CFL and SAR swimmer. Learning Spanish now, Japanese next.
I’m really good at
Art. I love to draw, paint, sculpt, and doodle. I was a professional artist, designer, and printer before the Navy. I still do freelance work on the side for giggles.
The first things people usually notice about me
Its usually my eyes. They're kinda pale grey-green, and seem to shift color.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BOOKS: Count of Monte Cristo, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, The Destroyer series, Journey to the West, anything Neil Gaiman.

TV: Big Bang Theory, Firefly, Mythbusters, Once Upon A Time, Supernatural, original BBC Being Human and Sherlock.

MOVIES: My Man Godfrey, Crossworlds, Buckaroo Bansai, Drunken Master 1, Mr. Holland's Opus, Rio Lobo, Cpt. American.

MUSIC: Creedance, 3 Doors Down, Bruno Mars, Black Veil Brides, DMX, Dean Martin, Billie Holiday, Andrew WK.

FOOD: SEAFOOD! Cheesecake, jambalaya, posole, lasagna, Reese's Cup Blizzards.
The six things I could never do without
My wife
My sketch book
Something to read
5 minutes in morning to myself
Working out
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Others, and how to make things better for people. Particularly for the LGBTQ community, with a good deal of focus within the military.

Currently, volunteering my time to several military GSAs; Sparta and GLASS chapters around San Diego, and working on SD Pride '14 for the military.
On a typical Friday night I am
It's always something different; SCUBA at the beach, rock climbing, judo or boxing at the gym, riding my bike, museums, movies, or sometimes just sit in the park and draw.

I also like finding new places to try out; restaurants, theaters or other hidden gems.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Not sure, I'm really an open book. Ask me a question, I'll answer it.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 21–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
To be up front, my wife and I are poly-, and we understand that is a problem for most people.

If you like what you see and/or read, drop me line. I promise, I'm not a snob. ;D