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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21-29
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 26
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Christianity and it’s important
Working on Two-year college
Has kid(s) and might want more
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Italian (Somewhat), Sign Language (Somewhat), Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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My name is Jake, I'm a single father to an amazing little boy who I love more than words could ever tell. Im a licensed massage therapist, it's a career I love and I get to meet and help new people every day, which is very rewarding. I tend to be more laid back, I can be a major comedian at times, but I know when it's time to be serious. I'm really good with secrets and most people come to me about them, I never repeat what's told to me. I'm a straight shooter, no BS kinda guy, I'll speak my mind, I'm very honest, rather hurt with the truth than kill with a lie. If you want to talk, just message me, I'll more than likely respond.
What I’m doing with my life
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I got divorced in early 2015, and I'm ready to enter the dating world again. I want something real, something that happens naturally and just feels right.

I have 3 part time jobs and looking for a full time job once I get my Massage License.

I've recently completed my internship as a massage therapist. I graduated with a 3.7 GPA.

I'm also studying forms of martial arts, I'm currently experienced in Karate, Kung Fu, Muay Thai, Wing Chung, Thai Chi and Ninjutsu. I'd like to learn Judo, Aikido, Krav Maga, Taekwondo, Brazillian Jujitsu, Tang Soo Do and Capoeira. I don't want to learn these to hurt people, I simply find beauty in how the body moves and I believe every person should know how to defend themselves if they need to do so.

Also I have an interest in foreign language, I've managed to learn enough Spanish to have a conversation with people. I'm also in the process of trying to learn Sign Langauge, I also know some Italian

In my free time I spend most of it with my son, otherwise I'm with friends, giving massages, eating (I like to do that) playing video games, or out on the town. I've also taken an interest in Yoga.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a dad, my son in my world and I make that very clear.

Being myself, I don't fake who I am for anyone or any situation. I'm respectful and polite, I'm a comedian, a listener. I like to help people out as long as they don't take advantage. I speak my mind no matter what it is or who it's directed towards.

I'm a good partner. I don't cheat, I'm open and honest about everything. I show affection and I'm willing to try new things as long as they're not too awkward (I'm not going to suspend myself from the ceiling from my ear lobes or anything like that).

Being a good friend from what I'm told, my friends feel that they can come to me with any secret and it will be safe.

I'm really honest and I'll say what needs to be said weather you like it or not.

Making people laugh. Friends and family always call me up when they need a good laugh, and I'll gladly try to help out.

My job. I've been recognized for being one of the hardest workers and one of the most knowledgeable about how to do things. I don't fake who I am at work, I joke with my co-workers and customers. If I see someone needs help or something needs to be done, I get it taken care of as fast and as efficiently as possible. Also if I'm not sure how to do something at my job, I seek out the go-to person for that particular position or task and get trained to know it just as well.
The first things people usually notice about me
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-I love my son more than words could ever say.
-I'm not tall, only about 5'3.
-My eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I like Stephen King a lot, I also read a lot of text books from school, or anything I could learn something new from.

Movies: Anything, I'm a big movie person, I really do prefer Comedies and Action. I can get into anything though.

Family Guy, WWE, Steve Wilkos, anything on Animal Planet, Discovery, Science Channel or Nat Geo.

Music: Metal, Alternative, Rock, I can really listen to anything

Food: Pizza is my weakness.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) My Son

2) My loved ones

3) Education

4) Food

5) Goals

6) Video Games
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My son.

My future mainly, I constantly wish I knew where it was going and what I will become. I want to know how the decisions I make today will affect me tomorrow.

I also spend a lot of time looking back at the mistakes I've made in the past. I try to figure out what exactly I did wrong, what I could have done better, and what I could do to prevent it from happening again.

I put a lot of thought into every possible outcome to try and make sure I make the best decisions I can.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm either out with friends doing Karaoke, Shooting Pool, Having a guys night, Eating, Studying or catching up on sleep.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sometimes when I'm feeling down, I watch chick flicks and eat chocolate frosting out of the can.
You should message me if
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You don't mind a guy that has a kid. If you're loyal and trustworthy, have a good sense of humor, understand sarcasm, like to cuddle, affectionate, you gotta like pizza cus I eat it whenever I can. You have to have goals and at least some form of plan to achieve them. If you're looking for something real or a least a good friend.