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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 18–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:08am
Asian, White
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Rather not say
Not at all
Graduated from masters program
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English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
(1) I prefer simple, introspective, rational guys who don't obsess over appearances.

(2) I like people who improve themselves emotionally and intellectually.

* Don't let your imagination run wild with my profile pic. I'm not a model. I'm not muscular, and I'm not into sex.

- Simple, friendly, and considerate. Avid listener.

- Traveler, musician, and writer.

- Man of impermanence with no permanent abode who enjoys taking spontaneous pit stops along the road we call life.

- Enemy of misconceptions.

- Cynic / Stoic (i.e., not a hopeless romantic).

- Non-believer of fate and predestined love.

- Non-fashionista.

- Devout language learner.

- Atypical lover.

- Willing to make anything work as long as my partner desires the same thing.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Remembering the past, living in the present, and planning for the future.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.

Random Thoughts Below

What you need to be monogamous

In the Vetral Tegmental area of monogamous men exists a special hormone that allows them to have long-term relationships. Do you have it?

Words of Wisdom on Pain

"Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me."

Not true. According to researchers, the brain doesn't differentiate between the betrayal of a loved one and the spilling of hot coffee on your arm. Emotional pain hurts just as much as physical pain.

Interestingly, people try to to suppress their pain or eliminate it; however, in doing so, they fail to realize its beauty. That is, the more we know pain in all its varying flavors, the more we can appreciate the sensations and feelings that we like.

Think about it this way: If we never felt bitterness or anger, then we wouldn't deeply appreciate our happiness. If we never knew fear, then we couldn't admire courage.

Maybe to enjoy the beauty in our lives, we must first acknowledge and embrace our pain.

Getting a Ph.D. or Ed.D.

"Alas," said the mouse, "the world gets smaller every day. At first it was so wide that I ran along and was happy to see walls appearing to my right and left, but these high walls converged so quickly that I’m already in the last room, and there in the corner is the trap into which I must run."

"But you’ve only got to run the other way," said the cat, and ate it.


Someone once said, "Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people." What do you think?

Favorite Performers and Articles

Mitsuko Uchida & David Dubal (12/15/1985):

8 Reasons Why You May Still Be Single:

Trying to find happiness?

"Valuing happiness might lead to a focus on the self, potentially damaging social connections."

Advice: People in Your Life
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.

Passionflower (2012)

Shlomo Mintz - Wieniawski: Violin Concerto No.2 in D minor


* The Imitation Game (2014)
* Detachment (2011)
* Love is Strange (2014)
* What Dreams May Come (1998)
* The Book Thief (2013)
* Star Trek: Voyager - Real Life (Season 3, Episode 22)
* The Giver (2014)
* Big Hero 6 (2014)
* Autómata (2014)
* Once Upon A Time In Shanghai (2014)
* Black Sea (2015)
* Bad Teacher (2011)

Robot and Frank (2012)
The Duff (2015)
Blended (2014)
Sex is Zero (2002)
Up (2009)
Despicable Me 2 (2013)
Frozen (2013)
The Last Keepers (2013)
Hugo (2011)
Man of Tai Chi (2013)
Legend of Kung Fu Rabbit (2011)
Si Ren Ding Zhi (2013)
Rurouni Kenshin (film) (2013)
The Interview (2014)


On a Pale Horse (Piers Anthony)
Bearing an Hourglass (Piers Anthony)


Can we love? 우리가 사랑할 수 있을까
The Newsroom
Heroes (2006-2010)
Mozart in the Jungle (2014)
Star Trek Voyager: Blink of an Eye w/ Daniel Dae Kim (2000)



Who Pays on a First Date

Fireworks filmed from inside

Feeling lonely?

Acapella version of the above song

Which life will you live?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Inner Peace
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Buddhism, goals, plans, future, ambitions, parents, reality, etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Choosing which country I'd like to visit, paying bills, introspecting, or meeting someone new.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
To save humanity from destruction (self-inflicted or otherwise), I'd sacrifice myself.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're an irregular verb who believes nouns have more power than adjectives.

I'm an unpretentious, professional traveler, 5 yr. Chinese resident, sometime philosopher, slim, attractive, with no children... Seeking sensitive, sanguine, youthful man, mid 20's-30's, health-conscious, intellectually adventurous, who values truth, loyalty, and openness.

愿你拥有足够的阳光, 让你乐观向上。
愿你拥有足够的雨水, 让你更加感激阳光。
愿你拥有足够的幸福, 使你精神高昂。
愿你拥有足够的痛苦, 这样, 生命中再微小的欢乐都会显得巨大。
愿你收获更多, 满足你的需求。
愿你失去更多, 让你知道珍惜一切。
愿你在永别后, 能交更多的朋友。