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BanDarrow

26 M Austin, TX

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 16
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Arabic (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Hi everyone!

My name's Daniel.

I just put up a stupid picture cause I hated my last one. I'm oddly good at stupid pictures.

I'm a socially-relaxed, professionally-oriented fellow living a pretty solid life up in north Austin. I share a house with two other gentlemen, work a 9-6 job Monday through Friday (hurrah for benefits!), play a lot of roleplaying games, own a snake, and live within 40 minutes of some 20 family members. I would love to find somebody that I can share my life with, who likes to snuggle at night, and who would be perfectly happy lying in bed all day Sunday watching Netflixs with me. Don't worry - we can do something more fun on Saturday!

IMPORTANT UPDATE: I'm not really looking for a monogamous relationship right now. I am looking for a primary. I'm currently having relations with a married couple, which is quite wonderful. I like this sort of thing. My ideal person would be my hunting partner - my primary sex partner, but also somebody that likes to hunt for other sex partners.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I built a steampunk tabletop RPG business that I'm currently selling to some friends. In the fall, I'm going back to school to study Arabic part-time. My job is awesome - I work in a quickly blossoming office ergonomics department. I run a lot of the logistics; it really is surprisingly fun.

I spend Mondays with my RPG crew, I spend Wednesday at family dinner, and I spend at least one night a week out with co-workers. Other nights I spend writing, hanging with friends, or down in San Marcos relaxing with some of my oldest and best friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a decent writer and fantasy world-builder (I mean, I wrote and published my own tabletop RPG book - though I'm not entirely sure if it's "good"). I've participated in a ton of model political programs (such as Model United Nations and Model Arab League).

I'm good at engaging people and building communities. I can be reserved at times, but I also like to do crazy things with very little social lubrication. I suppose I'm equally good at being proud and showing no dignity.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Otherwise, I am a tall gentleman with ruddy-to-brown hair, though much of my hair is ginger. I like to be quietly in-control. Except when I'm loudly out-of-control.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Dune, Ender's Game, Harry Potter, Stephen King's On Writing, Eats, Shoots & Leaves

Comics: East of West, Saga, Hactivist, Star Wars

Movies: Lucky Number Slevin, Red, Ip Man

Shows: The West Wing, Downton Abbey, Restaurant Impossible, Fullmetal Alchemist: Brotherhood, House of Cards, Tengen Toppa Gurren Lagann, Pasta

Music: Glitch Mob, Overwerk, Justice, Yelle, Something a la Mode, Macklemore & Ryan Lewis, Juno Reactor

Food! Sushi, Indian... anything delicious, really. I love tzatziki sauce, and I am obsessed with ginger. I drink ginger kombucha in the morning and end my day with ginger beer (of the alcoholic variety). If I can sneak another form of ginger into my day, I will.

I listen to political or grammatical podcasts while I'm in the car.

I think I should note: I love political dramas. If you watched all of the West Wing and can discuss it, I will find you attractive. If you list the West Wing among your favorite shows, I will want to have relations with you. If you understand why I feel like my sexual identity is based on my feelings for the West Wing, then you and I might be soul-mates.

House of Cards and Political Animals are both strong runners-up for this position.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'll exclude my family and friends from this list, since I feel like those are so far above everything else here they're not even worth mentioning.

People. I'm one of those "extroverts." I like to do things alone and get a lot of work done when I'm alone, late at night. But I recharge by being around people, discussing my work, and building things together.

Pilot Precise V7 RT. Yep, I'm talking about a pen. I need these pens. I always have one on me. As I am fond of saying, "A true man always has a pen on him. Only a boy would leave the house without a pen."

Hookah. I enjoy social smoking, especially from my hookah. While I don't use it as often now-a-days, the occasional hookah night is nearly necessary for me.

Daylight bulbs. I'm fond of a properly lit room. I do not appreciate working in the dark; it makes the area feel dirty. Daylight bulbs provide blue lighting, which is optimal for focused work. (This is an odd change to me, since for years I really liked working in the dark.)

A Project. I am a goal-oriented person. I tend to be busy. When I'm not busy, I make myself busy until I am overloaded. This is why I've built my own company - I like to be busy, and a company gives me numerous goals to call my own.

My Car. My car provides a great deal of freedom to me. I like that freedom. Thus, I love my car.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I am constantly considering new ideas and way to improve on current processes. I like to be in control of my life. While I am far from organized, I do tend to keep a clean mind. The mind is always tinkering with the systems in my life.

I also spend a lot of time thinking about sexuality (primarily my own - or, at least, how to convince other people that my form of sexuality is the best form), gaming, and how to create the best "whatever-it-is-I'm-creating."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm down for a lot of things on Fridays. Drinks, dancing, adventure, murder mystery - whatever floats your boat!

- Go to a convention! (Comic, Anime, Gaming) Weekends are the times for my projects, and I sell at conventions and tradeshows. I spend about one weekend a month at a convention promoting the company I built. (This might change now that I'm selling it, but everything's still in flux.)

- Sleeping. I don't sleep much during the week. When Friday rolls around, I crash.

- Being with friends, having some drinks, playing a game. I enjoy relaxing. I don't do it often, but I always appreciate it when I can. Sometimes I see a movie - I do so thoroughly enjoy a good movie. I have a bad habit of hearing about a movie coming out that I want to see and immediately grabbing tickets. I don't mind seeing movies solo. I get really into those movies...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a very open person, but I can be a bit ridiculous. I'm a pretty chill person just looking for a beautiful partner that I can love, dote on, and have a fantastic life with.

I like committed relationships with open communication, wonderful people, and energy. Energy and honesty are SO NECESSARY for me.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I find a few things extremely attractive:
- Intense and confident people. (Comedians are very hot to me.) Oddly, I like cute and quiet people just as much...
- I love people who are into politics or international relations.
- I enjoy tabletop games. If you aren't willing to play board games, card games, or RPGs... well, that might be a problem.
- I'm not going to say that I'm lazy, but I don't work out as much as I'd like. If you want a work-out buddy (7am or 7pm), I'm down! Or if you just want to do crazy shit, that sounds fun to me too.

I have a fantastic time doing ridiculous things. If that sounds like you, let's hang.