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BanDarrow

27 Austin, TX Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 4
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Arabic (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm tired of first dates. Can we meet up and just pretend like we've been friends for six months? I want my dating life to be like an action movie and start in the middle of a big fight scene. This might be why 1-night stands so often evolve into full relationships.

NOTE: Before I talk about me, let me tell you want I want. I'm looking for a non-monogamous primary. I'm looking for that person who, on a Saturday after staying up until 2am playing board games and then fucking til 5am, wants to stay in bed and watch Netflix all day Sunday.

I'm bisexual. I thoroughly enjoy my women. I also like my men, but I don't have a lot of experience with men. So male applicants: if you are the type of person who's willing to ease me into a male relationship, that sounds great to me.

I'm part of the Austin fetish scene (BDSM and all that jazz), though I'm just getting my toes wet and seeing what I like. So far, I can safely say that I enjoy being a bit dominant, using restraints, and many aspects of sensation play. I also seem to be enjoying my submissive masochistic side. But I'm still exploring my sexuality, so I look forward to more chances to do so.

I'm looking for a Hunting Partner. I want somebody who is interested in threesomes or polyamory that will go to events with me and we can find other partners together.

If any or all of these things don't fit you but you still think I'd be worth dating, let me know. If I have proven anything in my life, it's that I have no idea what I want.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm the Freight Warehouse Manager at a ergonomic office furniture company. I work 9-6 Monday through Friday, have a bawler desk, a great staff, and handle all of the awesome responsibilities of running logistics for a quickly growing company. Also, supervisor calls are the best. (That was a lie.)

Outside of work, I play and build roleplaying games (the tabletop kind, like Dungeons and Dragons). A few years ago, I published Tephra: the Steampunk RPG. We go to conventions several times a year to promote and sell it and its expansions. So I play RPGs a lot, board games a smidgen, and do a ton of writing.

In a year or so, I'm going to go back to school and get my Associates in Arabic. I love that language - I look forward to learning more of it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My handwriting is visually appealing.

I'm surprisingly adept at giving speeches on the fly. Public speaking entertains me.

I wrote a roleplaying game. It has won awards. So I'm either good at writing roleplaying games or good at publicity. It has to be one of them.

I'm excellent at Facebook. I have dozens of groups and pages. I like to chat on Facebook basically all day. Networking!

Parliamentary Procedure. I've been a committee chair a lot. I bet this turns you on. You're thinking, "Oh, BanDarrow, you know parliamentary procedure? Tell me I'm out of order! Pound me with that gavel! Oh yes, I am sooooo dilatory. Take my panties."

(If you're not currently thinking that, I understand.)

Also, I'm pretty funny between the hours of 2am and 6am, specifically after having sex. My pillow talk is hilarious. Alternatively: It's the ramblings of a mad man.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am a tall gentleman with hair. Yes, hair. I have it.

My facial hair changes on a biweekly basis. If you hate it right now, just wait a few days. It'll be different.

I have body hair. It is the best body hair ever. If you think body hair can be sexy, I am your God.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Great sci-fis, some fantasies, and most books on the process of writing. Examples:Dune, Ender's Game, Harry Potter, Stephen King's On Writing, Eats, Shoots & Leaves

Comics: Basically, a fun world makes me happy. Examples: East of West, Saga, Hactivist, Star Wars. I also love the X-Men universe.

Movies: I love action movies with a fun twist. Examples: Lucky Number Slevin, Red, Ip Man

Shows: Anime is one of my favorites, though it's mostly the "serious and political" animes that get me. I also love political dramas. Some of my favorites include: The West Wing, Downton Abbey, Restaurant Impossible, Fullmetal Alchemist: Brotherhood, House of Cards, Tengen Toppa Gurren Lagann, Pasta

Music: I am a fan of strong beats or anything that gets me in the mood. Examples include: AVICII, Glitch Mob, Overwerk, Justice, Yelle, Something a la Mode, Macklemore & Ryan Lewis, Imogen Heap

Food! Sushi, Indian... anything delicious, really. I love tzatziki sauce, and I am obsessed with ginger. I drink ginger kombucha in the morning and end my day with ginger beer (of the alcoholic variety). If I can sneak another form of ginger into my day, I will.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'll exclude my family and friends from this list, since I feel like those are so far above everything else here they're not even worth mentioning.

People. I'm one of those "extroverts." I like to do things alone and get a lot of work done when I'm alone, late at night. But I recharge by being around people, discussing my work, and building things together.

Pilot Precise V7 RT. Yep, I'm talking about a pen. I need these pens. I always have one on me. As I am fond of saying, "A true man always has a pen on him. Only a boy would leave the house without a pen."

Hookah. I enjoy social smoking, especially from my hookah. While I don't use it as often now-a-days, the occasional hookah night is nearly necessary for me.

Daylight bulbs. I'm fond of a properly lit room. I do not appreciate working in the dark; it makes the area feel dirty. Daylight bulbs provide blue lighting, which is optimal for focused work. (This is an odd change to me, since for years I really liked working in the dark.)

A Project. I am a goal-oriented person. I tend to be busy. When I'm not busy, I make myself busy until I am overloaded. This is why I've built my own company - I like to be busy, and a company gives me numerous goals to call my own.

My Car. My car provides a great deal of freedom to me. I like that freedom. Thus, I love my car.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sexuality and game rules.

I am self-critiquing a lot, because I like to understand why I work the way I do. Everything is an experiment to me. I want to be amazing at sex, so I also spend a lot of time trying to figure out how to be better at sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm down for a lot of things on Fridays. Drinks, dancing, adventure, murder mystery - whatever floats your boat!

Recently, my brother has been having football games on Fridays. He's a high school senior, team captain, and he has scholarships riding on him doing well. I can't hardly stand football regularly, but when he's playing, it's different. I love going to his games.

If I don't have plans, I sleep. I always push myself hard Monday through Thursday, so when Friday rolls around, I just pass out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I wrote this entire profile in the bathtub.
You should message me if
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If you are into politics or international relations, that makes for fun conversations.

I enjoy tabletop games. If you aren't willing to play board games, card games, or RPGs... well, that might be a problem.

If you're not the type of person to make the first move, you should totally message me and tell me that. I think that's hott.

Or if you don't mind reading my long fucking messages. I tend to write a lot.