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Bandidoxx

41 M Amherst, MA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 25–37
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:56am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black, White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Speaks
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A few things you should know about me: I strive for balance. I have an intense intellectual side and a juvenille sense of humor. I cant spell. Im good at lots of things and bad at even more. I shave my head. I dont like being cold. I hate pants. I'm fashion challenged. I tend to walk around naked or in my underwear. I laugh at inappropriate times. I can be easily distracted. I think sarcasm is an art form (when in jest). I dont start trouble, but I do finish it. I have vision. Im bad with dates and details. At times my brain moves faster than my mouth. I often assume that all of the people that I know, know each other. I believe unreasonable rules dont apply to me. I listen to NPR. I think most TV is toxic. I like my veggies raw. I see order in chaos. I am intuitive. I support gay marriage. I love music. I dont attend church. I do believe in higher powers. I chafe at restriction. I have a passion for Social Justice. I have a problem with authority. I dont like proselytization. I have a smart mouth. I can be stubborn. I give great massages. I smell nice. I give good hugs. I cant resist curls, beautiful smiles or big brown eyes. I want a puppy.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've had two big goals in my life. I've completed one, and i'm close to completing the other. Ask me and I'll tell ya!

In general, I am usually doing some manner of Political/Social Justice/liberatory ish. I envision the world as a much more compassionate and loving place and work toward that end. Wanna help?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, reading people and situations, witty comebacks, innuendo and double entendre, being supportive, conflict resolution, using every dish and utensil in the kitchen to cook something, spraining my ankle, cutting the two sides of my beard unevenly. I would have added "talking about yo mama" but I have recently come to the conclusion that this is a manifestation of internalized oppression and I no longer talk about people's mamas.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My pretty hair!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have a very curious mind so I read all kinds of things. This habit developed as a child when I used to take the encyclopedia with me to the bathroom and read it while I pooped (true story!). The books on the floor next to the bed: Changes by Jim butcher (love that dude!); Shut up, stop whining and get a life; Karate-do - My way of life, The colonizer and the colonized; Homophobia, a weapon of sexism; Gender and Colonialism; Bucky Cats Big book of fun; How to rent a Negro.

Music - I dig everything but heavy metal and country. My favs are probably Reggae (strictly roots!), Latin Jazz, House and old school hip hop. On the ipod right at this moment: Biz Markie!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee!
Mah Peeps!
Fresh Fruit!
Music!
My creativity!
Exclamation points!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I want to be when I grow up, entrepreneurial stuff, liberation, the next phase of my life, internet dating (weird I know, but the subject fascinates me!), pants (oh how i hate them so!), K-Swiss (cuz they are dope!), how i can get someone to convert my CD collection to MP3, if I was born in the wrong decade, wtf 3D filmakers expect those of us who wear glasses to do when forced to watch their crappy films.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Up until recently the answer to this would have been "Dissertating". However, I am done with that accursed thing and I now spend my Friday nights trying to figure out what other people do on THEIR Friday nights. Well, that, brushing off my mack-daddy vibe and preparing for the zombie apocalypse.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Politics aside, I think Meghan McCain is kinda sexy.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
1. You are awesome.
2. You enjoy and can appreciate my awesomeness.
3. You want to make a friend.
4. You think my hair is pretty.
5. You are an entrepreneur.
6. You are prepared for the coming zombie apocalypse.
7. You can talk like a pirate.