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Bandrala

33 F San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 30–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:20am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Judaism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a teacher looking to change the world one lesson at a time. I love salsa dancing, playing tennis and trying new bars and restaurants. Love burner events, sushi, live music, baseball and any excuse to wear a costume or glitter.♡

I am adventurous, exuberant, and love to laugh.
Really just want to make new friends, have fun and explore San Francisco with an equally adventurous male companion. I went to Burning Man for the first time this past August and would love it if you are a part of that culture.

I'm not particularly interested in a serious boyfriend. Life has been taking me in some crazy directions and I'm still figuring myself out and what I want. That being said I'm also not down with random casual sex. I want to meet interesting, artistic, intriguing people with whom I can form deep connections with, whatever those connections may be. But if you're looking for a booty call or future wife with kids and white picket fence, I'm not your girl.

Just a note: I feel most comfortable having coffee/tea/ cocoa first. If we click then we'll go for a drink. Please don't pressure me into dinner or something fancy on the first or second date. Its just not my style. that being said, I am interested in dating, as in actually going out on the town for dinner, drinks or whatnot to get to know you. just be yourself and let's be friends and see what happens. overly romantic gestures tend to freak me out. If you don't live or work in San Francisco then I most likely will not reply. No time for pen pals!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Teaching kindergarten and learning, exploring, writing, meeting interesting people, laughing, traveling, dancing, listening to good music, and watching lots of Giants baseball, drinking good beer and great wine, practicing mi espanol, standing up for better education, ed funding, and public health care. Also, I'm an active yogi and and about to embark on a yoga teacher training course in the near future. I'm really excited about it!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dancing, getting lost, baking, burning dinner, making you a great mixed CD, smiling, working with children, having fun, drinking wine, being silly, taking deep breaths.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My big brown eyes, my smile, my sensitivity to caffeine, matching earrings-to-clothing, funky socks, colorful aura.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I'm currently reading The Great Bridge. Past faves : The Help, Daughter of Fortune, Zorro (Allende), Middlesex, Little Women, Memoirs of a Geisha, anything by the Davids (Eggers and Sedaris), Bee Season, The Joy Luck Club, The Thornbirds, The Color of Water, Good in Bed, Crazy in Alabama. I'm a sucker for historical fiction.
Movies: A League of Their Own, The Sandlot, Center Stage, Dirty Dancing, The fugative, The Bourne Identity films, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Big Fish, Pirates of the Caribean, Benny and Joon (and any Johnny Depp film for that matter) and any James Bond movie, new or old.
Food:sushi and dirty martinis (not necessarily together!)
Music: I'm always interested interested in listening to something new. Current faves are: capital citites, the Neighborhood, Lorde, almost any EDM, Florence + The Machine, The Dirty Heads, Explosions in the Sky, The National, Teegan & Sara, The Temper Trap, Guster, Dispatch, Space Cowboys, Opulent Temple, The Shins, Matt Nathanson, Ozomatli, India.Arie, Kate Nash, Regina Spektor, Ingrid Michaelson, Imogen Heap, Kate Havenvik, Miles Davis, Barbara Streisand, Ella Fitzgerald, Billy Holiday, Vampire Weekend, Silver Sun Pickups, Rodrigo & Gabriela, Juanes, Shakira, Etta James, Tracy Chapman, anything soulful or jazzy, I could go on and on and on . ..
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
chocolate, red wine, dancing, my family, friends, sushi, avocados, itunes, teaching, baseball, oops, that's more than 6!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how Im going to change the world while still living my life as a consumer; good wine, where and when my next worldly adventure will take me; my ideal apartment; really good wine, when cute boots will be on sale, why I can't get KNBR in the sunset; New lesson ideas or art projects, what my next party costume will be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
often Happy hour or dinner; seeing a show at the Independent; having drinks with good friends; but most likely catching up on my netflix queue as the kids have taken it all outta me!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I lock my closet door before bed at night!
You should message me if
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You live in San Francisco and:
You'd like to play tennis with me.
You'd like to have coffee or a beer with me.
You'd like to be my friend.
You are okay with taking it slow.
You'd like to see if you can make me laugh.
You'd like to watch/go to a Giants game with me.
You'd like to get offline and actually meet a no drama, intelligent, sophisticated lady who knows how to have fun.
You are just curious.