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33 Los Angeles, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-43
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 24
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Average build
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Korean (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat), Latin (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm intuitive, not emotional, and come across a bit cold at first. But I'm actually very warm, sensitive, empathetic, and have a high tolerance for all sorts of people and behaviors.

I want to laugh at inappropriate social situations and I always laugh at the parts in movies that no one laughs at.

After reading bell hooks' All About Love and becoming a person of faith, I know love is the answer to personal and greater social problems.

I love music and aleatoric sounds. When I first went to Japan, I made field recordings of the sakura song--cherry blossom tune that plays when the lights are green for pedestrians to cross--street sounds, and random conversations in bars.

I enjoy all food related activities from picking tomatoes and beets at farmers markets to chopping up animal parts, savouring the sound of food frying, and eating.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Researching traditional music, teaching English
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Arithmetic, singing, eating durian, reading character
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My straightforwardness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Paul Willis, ethnographies, lists, The Straight Story, Bladerunner, Talk to Her, Breaking Bad, Curb Your Enthusiasm, p'ansori, Crime and the City Solution, Nick Cave, Tindersticks, durian, banh mi, Mark E. Smith, Javanese Gamelan, Satie, Julee Cruise, Silver Apples, Scott Walker, Goldfrapp, Destroyer, The Clientele, King Tubby, Holger Czukay, Thelonious Monk, bell hooks' All About Love, 1984
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
fermented foods and drinks
health supplements
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Health, music, food, God, poverty, liberation
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
eating delicious things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I no longer have a transvestite obsession.
You should message me if
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you enjoy food adventures.

you have integrity, are honest and imaginative, and think critically.

or just open minded!