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BarbedAndSpined

23 / M / gay / Single

Norman, Oklahoma

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Sagittarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on law school
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English (Fluently), German (Okay)

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I am friendly, ambitious, and happy.

My Self-Summary

Many people, activities, and forms of arts/entertainment bring me great joy. I am a great fan of many forms of art. I like most visual arts as well as the more palatable media of music and television. I am also an amateur, part-time writer and artist. I stress part-time, as I don't do either with great frequency (at least during the school year), and I stress amateur as I do them primarily for my own entertainment, and, depending on who you ask, I may not do either particularly well (I don't think I've created anything that could ever be sold... at best, maybe a few 'works' that I could barter for some canned goods). I began running about four years ago, and exercise has since become an integral part of my life. I'm not always able to do it as much as I would like (I again blame school), but it gives me great pleasure when I can.

I am not sure what I want to do in my life, but I am optimistic that, with hard work, everything will ultimately work out as it should. I will finish a graduate program in 2011, so hopefully that will present many exciting opportunities. I am fascinated by both big cities and foreign culture, so undoubtedly I am going to travel extensively both within the United States and abroad at some point in the future. Other than that, I am open to my own changing and developing interests as well as the kismet which life will present (thank you thesaurus.com!).

Though I don't cite any particularly lofty goals, I am both ambitious and determined. I do what I can to improve myself through education and through exercise (though this suffers a little during the academic year...) and healthy living. I do what I can to impart what little earthly wisdom I've acquired when those around me are suffering or struggling. I am relatively shy, but I think most people are amazing and wonderful, so I've done what I can to overcome this over the years. I am absolutely humble and can even be a bit self-deprecating (though just to seek laughs not sympathy). I love when I succeed in making others laugh, and enjoy it just as much when others make me do the same. I usually manage to be happy except when happiness is wholly inappropriate. Ergo, I am perfectly content whether, in my free time, I am out or in, by myself or with others.

I love so much music, and I love music so much. I have yet to encounter a style without merit. Much of what I love is frequently (perhaps unfairly) described as pretentious (ambition should not be looked down on!), but I neither detest nor decry that which is played on the radio (and, in fact, enjoy a lot of said music). Music can serve many different purposes, so I will neither judge music too harshly for simply staying the course (MOR) nor for going too far down the untraveled path.

I guess that's about the extent of what I have to say about myself in one sitting...

You should message me if

...you want to. I will make an effort to respond to any and all pieces of fanmail I receive (a joke - I truly do not think that highly of myself). Send a message if anything interests you for any reason.