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54 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 33–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:09pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Rather not say
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I have found a comfortable niche in the Poly and Kink Community and seek persons who feel at home there. I do not have a primary partner, its not an impossibility, it just hasn't worked out that way. Between my love of theater, camping and local kink events I have a pretty busy happy life. My partner is going through the adventure that is cancer treatment and she has encouraged me to reopen me OKC account seek out the possibility's out there.
What I’m doing with my life
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I enjoy what I do for a living and work with a great group of people. I would rather create something than buy ready made, even though I know that is sometimes not the best choice, (IKEA Effect),Bonus points if you know the reference.
I tend to think about ideas for a long time rather than going on impulse. I'm taking a stab at Transcendental Meditation which is somewhat akin to putting a square peg in a round hole, Me being the peg. But, nothing ventured nothing gained.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Procrastination, No wait that's bad. making a mess, no that doesn't work either. Fixing things, yes but that usually involves one or more of the above.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Is probably that I"m quiet, eventually I have something to say but it comes in its own time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Well lets see, I subscribe to the Seattle Rep and Seattle Shakespeare company. I probably will return to subscribing to Intiman Theatre, but currently I'm a bit miffed at them for tanking a season. A typical night might include dinner at Marinepolis Sushi Land and a show.
TV watching is usually morning news, Bill Maher, The
Daily Show, Top gear, The real one with Clarkson Hammond and May, and the Seahawks
Musically I know what I like and its a diverse spectrum spread across styles and time. not in any order, blues, jazz, rock, pop, old school, folk, classical, world music ,Latin chant, techno, house, and so on. I do not own a big collection of music. The music industry and I had a bit of a falling out when they decided that they were in the business of selling licenses and not music.
If you adore a station that plays the same eight songs in heavy rotation I'm going to have to bail out.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Comfortable boots
Social acceptance
Good coffee
And a good length of rope
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At someones or my home relaxing or headed out of town with the car loaded with gear.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm willing to admit a lot, in private.
You should message me if
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You want to meet me, or complement my profile, I'm a sucker for praise.
Or tell me where to stick it, in which case I will just ignore you.
I never thought I would have to say this but one word messages and blank profiles do not cut it. I need something to work with.