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40 M Brighton, MA

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White, Other
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English, Portuguese, Spanish, Chinese, Thai

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My self-summary
Humble, funny, decent, driven, optimistic.

I am very comfortable with my own skin. I was raised to look at everything in different perspectives and be open minded. I grew up in a large family. I am very close to all of them. My Friends and family describe me as someone who is sincere, passionate, cool headed, kindl, humble, creative, thoughtful, and adventurous.

Maintaining balance between healthy life and work is important to me. I am always in search of ways to improve and love every opportunity to try and lean something new. Through up and down as most normal life, everyday I get up with positive mindset, happy to go to work, make the best of it, and make others laugh as much as I can. I always ask myself what can I do to be a source of inspiration to others and make a difference in this world. I pay it forward if someone has done anything for me. I enjoy being active and love nature, especially anywhere near water.

I love family, friends, and career. But it is also nice to have a partner in crime who I can talk about anything or make her laugh whenever she has a bad day. Humility is important to me so I accept others for who they are. I am not looking for someone to complete my life. Just someone who is honest, open-minded, funny, kind, and passionate about her work and life. I get along well with anyone.

Simply say hi.
What I’m doing with my life
Chef with a goal of opening a sustainable restaurant, perhaps several more after with a farm or an Inn. Most friends and people I came across in life suggested me to write a book about my work and life experience. I take it as a flattering compliment.

I hope to travel more. Every other side of the world offers unique learning experience (food, art, culture). I enjoy those differences and discovery. I hope you will come along.

I enjoy volunteering and giving back to community as much as I can.
I’m really good at
Forgiving, fixing stuffs, taking care of elderly & children, staying calm in time of crisis, making others laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
I always look 10 years younger and smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music : A lot to list here.

Show/Radio : Stand up comedy, documentaries, TED Talk, NPR, Heritage Radio.

Movies : When Harry met Sally, Goonies, Jiro dream of sushi.

Book : Dalai Lama, Thích Nhất Hạnh, George Orwell, self improvement & relationship books, cookbooks.

Food : I love to cook. I love checking out restaurants. My family will travel 1,000 miles for food. I appreciate and enjoy every ethnic cuisine and home cooking.
The six things I could never do without
Nature (Ocean)
Kitchen tools.
Comfy bed.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- Now and future.
- Be the change I wish to see in this world.
- Traveling.
- Career.
- Goals and plans.
- Cooking.
- Purpose of life.
- Mother nature.

- That silly smile on your face :)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating