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48 / M / Straight / Single

Brooklyn, New York

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am an exasperated artist/illustrator who has not as of yet been recognized as the great artist I am (modest me). So until I am recognized I toil in the corporate world hoping it wont suck my soul away as I continue to create!

**SPOILER ALERT!!** I am also kind of a geek.....I love Science Fiction films and books, horror movies, comic books and Anime. I know that this will seem immature to many of the pretentious women here who try to show off how advanced they are by touting how they ONLY read self help or other books published ages ago by snooty authors...(not that there is anything wrong with this....all books have value,,,but really!!) So if that's you then we wont make a good match!!

Movies are another beef I have...If all you want to see are romance and feel good movies then we wont make a good match either, what's wrong with throwing in some action adventure, fantasy or other genres? If you feel you are above liking animation too then we wont make a good match either!

I also like Television... I love Science Fiction TV series, I like MSNBC, science programs, history programs and I HATE how people think its a badge of honor to say "I don't own a TV!".....Give me a break!!!!

I also like what the outside world has to offer...love camping, hiking, museums....a nice restaurant . You will generally find me at the opening of any major Sci Fi or superhero movie......yes I AM A GEEK and PROUD of it!!!!!

I am a single dad to a wonderful 7 yr. old girl....and man what a handful that is!!!!

I am rooted in what needs to be done to maintain a proper life but still hope to one day chuck it all away and be a member of the crew of The Starship Enterprise...LOL!
What I’m doing with my life
Working a job I don't care for too much and taking care of my 7 year old daughter and will soon be taking some night classes at SVA.
I’m really good at
I am really good at working with computers, everything from software to taking them apart and putting them back together. I am also an artist/illustrator ...mostly Sci Fi, Horror and Goth stuff .....OH Yea....I am great with one liners and sarcasm! I am great with animals, I am buddies with a wonderful cat who shares my home and I also own a Bearded Dragon. I am also a great cook!
The first things people usually notice about me
Gee never thought to ask that of anyone.....will have to get around to that!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Hard to pin that down..... so many so I will go with authors...Asimov, Niven, Pournelle, Bradbury, Michio Kaku, Stephen Hawking, Anne Rice,Tolkien, Philip K. Dick, Douglas Adams, Carl Sagan, and more.....

Movies: The Star Trek films, Galaxy Quest, The Original Planet of the Apes and the sequels, Star Wars films, Lord of the Rings trilogy, ANY Superhero movie, Blade Runner.....latest fav The Dark Knight Rises,...my DVD collection is a Sci Fi junkies dream!!!!

TV Shows: Star Trek (all of them), Dark Shadows, Babylon 5, Battlestar Galactica, Fringe, The Big Bang Theory, Doctor Who, Torchwood, House, Buffy The Vampire Slayer, Smallville, Dark Skies, Married With Children, Supernatural, True Blood, The Walking Dead, Family Guy, Futurama, Simpsons, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report, History Channel, Science Channel (love Astronomy!) MSNBC! NO FAUX NEWS for me!! My TV list goes on.....NO REALITY TV!!!

Music: Rock from the 60's to present Beatles, Stones, Hendrix, Black Sabbath, Led Zep, Bowie, Alice Cooper, The Who, Pink Floyd and many more of the classic rockers.
I also love Punk, Metal, Goth, Darkwave and Darkwave Ambient and Industrial music! I could go on but My music list is very long!!!
The six things I could never do without
1.My daughter
2.my cat
3.my music
4.my art supplies
5.Food
6. Oxygen
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life the universe and everything....that and wondering what that little thingy hanging from my ceiling is.......
On a typical Friday night I am
watching TV or drawing while my daughter sleeps......boring isn"t it!!! LOL
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The TARDIS is bigger on the inside......
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
Message me if what I have said interests or befuddles you!