Not here to impress anyone with a job title, more of a "what you see is what you get" type of individual. Married once for 12 years and now have been divorced for 25 years. Please do not read anything into this, when I find the right Lady, I will get married again. Engaged twice but it seems whenever a ring is on a woman's finger, she does a 180 degree shift and starts telling me what to and what not to do.. That's Not Right.. Believing a Man should be made of Steel and Velvet. He should be a Gentleman always, that never lets anyone intimidate him.
Maybe this is why finding someone to share my life is so difficult, when stating exactly my wants and needs. Once people reach age of 55, we are only on this earth for another 25-30 years. I want to enjoying what little time we have left. Come on, being 6 foot 3 inches tall and looking for a Lady who likes to wear heels when we go out, Slim to Athletic looking, that eats healthy, likes to exercise and stay in shape is to much to ask?
Love to dance, especially East Coast Swing (Jitterbug), It's a great way to exercise and it's FUN.
NOT looking for perfection but someone who is pleasing to my eye, as well as my heart, and please be comfortable in your own skin. We are hopefully not giggling about this.. are we?
It was told to me "Love isn't about finding the Perfect Person... It's about seeing the Imperfect Person, Perfectly."
If you are ready for a real relationship, then please contact me, Looking more for my forever. Love long walks anywhere with the right person, even in the rain, enjoy cooking but not for one and also love to shop. They say that the eyes are the windows to the soul so when we look into each others eyes, would them to smile back at me with warmth. The eyes can speak volumes without ever uttering a single sound. Talk to my eyes though yours so we can finally see if we have the right chemistry. Looking for someone around my age for compatibility, plus someone who can think young, act young and also dress young.
If you were sick in bed with the flu, I would retrieve the flu medicine from the medicine cabinet, make you chicken soup, and tuck you in bed for the night, knowing that you would do the same for me.
Compromise is what we all strive for. We are all looking for that special person to share our lives with but are we willing to compromise on minor issues?
I like to think of the 3 C's Comfort-ability, Communication and Compromise is basically all we need, even though the Beatles sang "All you need is Love".
The kind of books read are Positive Books, mind enriching books. Yes, look for the positive in everything. Being an Eternal Optimist, and always look for the good in everyone, but remembering to “Never Treat Someone Like A Priority, If They Treat You Like An Option.” Am looking forward to becoming someones Priority.
Always been the type that will do whatever it takes, and remember what my Dad used to tell me, "If it is to be, it's up to me".
Passion makes the world go round and love just makes it a nicer place. Inside of me there is a place where my dreams reside, where my highest hopes are kept alive, where my deepest feelings are felt and where my favorite memories are safe and warm. To dream of love and being happy more than any other thought, makes my day brighter. Knowing ones thoughts are only a reflection of the loving hopes of my heart and they keep me alive.
Yes, a Nerd and proud of it.
Now that you have made it this far, What do you think?
Getting tired of the bar scene just looking to be Happy and to have someone in my life that will love me as much as I will her. Do not want to do the long evenings anymore would rather be in bed by Midnight, snuggling than staying out. Looking for someone to enjoy life with.
Masonry has become a large part of my life. Learning about the men I only knew as heroes to me as a child, the Founding Fathers of our Country, I now refer as Brothers of mine, which gives me a whole new perspective on life and history.
Amazingly, women still look for money than happiness. I am not rich in money by any means but I am rich in friends which are worth more to me than any amount of cash. I can pay my bills and as long as you can too we will have no disagreement. I used to go out every weekend and sometimes during the week and spend money and only found shallow people looking for what they thought was happiness. Now I go out a couple times a month. I do not mind staying home having a fire on cold nights with good conversation. I have found that most things in life worth sharing are free. If you are still hung up on the all mighty dollar then please pass me by I figure by this age we have less than 30 years left, and I want to enjoy what little time God has given me with someone who I can Love and be shown Love in return. I want someone who will be there for me as much as I am there for them. There is nothing wrong with me and am in good health, but would like to share my life with someone who deserves happiness.
If you've liked what you just read, please feel free to ask any questions you like and I promise to answer them all.