I'm thirty-one, work in tech support out in Chesapeake, live up in Newport news. Single, never married, no kids. I have a dog, a cat and a snake.

Own my own car (Kinda makin payments anyway), live with some great roommates and while i don't live a life of luxury I do live within my means and still manage to be content.

I kinda feel like I'm playing a game where no one has told me the rules (Referring to dating) or that the rules have changed SO much that there should be a handbook.

I have found through my recent attempts at dating (having been out of the game and single for over 5 years) that it seems that we as a society have degenerated to a weird standard for dating.

I'm also a gamer geek. That means I play video games up to and including World of Warcraft, so if you are gonna be a negative Nancy about it you can /shoo now. I also play RPGs (LIke honest to got pen and paper Dungeons and Dragons)

Also, as my pictures may or may not show, I'm a big girl, not big enough to have my own gravitational field, but I'm not a size 12. So if your not into big girls, I'm100% cool with that, to each their own, but please please PLEASE, don't waste mine and your time by messaging me and saying something stupid like "Hey fatty, loose weight and you'll find a date". KK? Thanks.

K so if your still with me you may be interested in some positive things eh?

Well I'm into photography, finding new adventures, exploring abandoned buildings, walking the dog, camping, video games, cooking, reading, music (Playing and listening) and of course the interwebs.

One question I would ask of anyone here is why did you join?

I'll answer my own question, I joined because I'm not into the bar scene. Or the club scene. And really, where else is there to meet people now-a-days? Everyone says OH why not a friend of a friend? Yeah.... Most of my friends are married or part of a couple and most of their friends are couples. So explain to me how that's gonna work?

Oh and Yes, my profile says I'm bi. This bears discussing because if I have one more guy ask me "SO do you have a girlfriend and can I watch" I'm gonna go postal.

It's not so much that I'm bisexual. It's the fact that I'm of a FIRM opinion that love, affection, human touch, cuddling, sex, ALL of the things in a relationship should know NO bounds of gender and race.

Now having said that, you are welcome to nod and go thats a nice idea and not subscribe to it. Everyone is allowed their opinions.

But please don't tell me that that's such and AWESOME idea and your behind it, then tell me that would would only cuddle with the same gender if there was an opposite gender involved. That is so not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about just showing affection to another human being that is attractive to you for their mind or their beliefs or even physically.

If you see me on im and want to chat, about anything at all, feel free to message me. I hate having to write the into e-mails.

I see you looking, take a chance, drop a line, say hi, don't be shy.

Trying to be happy, currently I'm content, and thats working out, but really... I want to be happy.

being a geek, playing guitar hero on medium, playing computer games, falling in and out of love.

my size and my.... well... *looks down* Them.

Anything written by Piers Anthony, Terry Pratchett, movies have to be comedy, action and suspense *( Shoot Em Up, Dance of the Dead ) . With music I'm eclectic and the same goes for food tho steak and potatoes have a special place in my heart.

My glasses, my dog, my mom and dad, work, books and music

random things, I'm a poet and a bit writer so my brain is CONSTANTLY wandering about.

sitting on my porch laughing at my neighbors.

you have a sense of humor and can appreciate Eddie Izzard.

Or if you are looking for an honest woman who is willing to make an effort to make things work and happen.