I am sexual, intellectual, and effectual.
My Self-Summary
Like everyone else, I hate trying to sum myself up, and like
everyone I like to fancy myself to be intelligent, creative, and
charming. Whether other people see me that way is a different
matter, but unless the people I know have been lying to me, it
might just be true. I enjoy music more than the average person and
have what could be considered way too much of it.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently working at a used book store, previously working as a
writer/editor, and hoping to get back into that. I spend my free
time reading, playing music, listening to music, and enjoying this
city i've called home for just over two years.
I’m really good at
Conversation, relationships, kissing, petting, "it", knowing way
too much about things few people care about.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
BOOKS: Master and Margarita, Ubik, Confederacy Of Dunces, Requiem
For A Dream, Middlesex, The Corner, anything by Auster, Ballard,
Russell Banks, Julian Barnes, Beckett, Paul Bowles, Richard
Braughtigan, Italo Calvino, Camus, Checkov, Conrad, DeLillo,
Dickens, Dostoyevsky Roddy Doyle, Richard Ford, Garcia-Marquez,
Hawthorne, Hesse, Huxley, Henry James, Joyce, Kafka, Kesey,
Kundera, Jumpa Lahiri, Mellville, Proust, Pynchon, Francine Prose,
Salinger, Sartre, Will Self, Upton Sinclair, Jane Smiley, Terry
Southern, Steinbeck, Tolstoy, Turgenev, Twain, Vonnegut, DF Wallace
(RIP), Zola.
MOVIES: Film Noir, Silent, Foreign, Underground. Stuff by Kirusawa,
Welles, Coen Brothers, Billy Wilder, Fritz Lang... your basic
Criterion Collection stuff. Plus way more than I care to list or
you care to read.
MUSIC: An exhaustive, and seemingly neverending list, which
contains but is no way limited to: Joy Division, LCD Soundsystem,
Fela, Can, Kraftwerk, Beatles, Captain Beefheart, Al Green,
Zombies, Kinks, Bat For Lashes, Who, Gang Of Four, Joan As Police
Woman, Brightblack Morning Light, Marvin Gaye, Brian Eno,
Funkadelic, Devo, Kings Of Convenience, Jay Reatard, St Vincent,
The Cure, Damned, Kurt Vile, Last Shadow Puppets, OM, PJ Harvey,
Sun Araw, Trad Gras Och Stenar, 13th Floor Elevators, CocoRosie,
The Juan McLean, The Pretty Things...etc etc etc
FOOD: Anything of the ethnic variety, such as Indian, Thai,
Mediterranean, African, Japanese, etc etc
The six things I could never do without
There aren't many things I couldn't live without, but some of my
favorite things are my books, my records, my iPod, my bike, my
computer, and something else, but i can't think of it. But not a
cell phone. I've recently gone without a cell phone and find it
very liberating. I read an article that said that 75% of people
said they'd rather give up sex than give up their cell phone. That
is pure insanity.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The who, the what, the where, the why... the meaning of it all...
food, sex, communication, music, the concept of nonexistence, the
origins of language, that thing over there, and that one guy, you
know the one, he's always walking and talking, always wears a
shirt... the Simpsons.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out to dinner with a friend, or home with my son, whom I have with
me three nights a week, or occasionally at a show.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I'm open to most things, so there's not much that's really private.
You should message me if
You're looking for someone to hang out with, date, go to shows
with, listen to records with, or just to chat.