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28 M Astoria, NY

My Details

Last Online
May 11
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Trying to quit
Judaism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them

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My self-summary
I think the best thing I would say to summarize myself is that I think friendships and family are really important and I spend a lot of time with both of those.

I always try and look at things positively, but the realist in me usually keeps my expectations low enough that I am not disappointed.

There is a lot more about me...but I think I would rather tell you over a drink or dinner.

And oh name is Alec.
What I’m doing with my life
I have been working the last 5 years in locations for tv and film production. I always wanted to work in this world and so far I am still really happy with it.

Ive moved into my own apartment and am enjoying getting it to look just the way I want (though damn furniture is expensive.)

And I am trying to enjoy it (life) without letting anything bring me down.
I’m really good at
I would like to say cooking...but i think its just something I am getting better at.

I would have to say movie/tv trivia. I am like a walking IMDB.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am going to say prob my personality.

I know its not something you actually see, but i try and always have a really friendly and welcoming demeanor.

But you can call me out when we meet, if you notice something else.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Harry Potter 1-7, The Picture of Dorian Gray, Perks of Being a Wallflower

Movies: Whos Afraid of Virginia Woolfe, The Dark Knight, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Grandma's Boy, Once, I can keep going so I will stop at that.

TV: Game of Thrones, Mad Men, Buffy (an old favorite), Arrested Development, Glee (still addicted), The Challenge, once again this could keep going

Music: Erykah Badu, Rihanna, Frank Ocean, Adele (when you need her), Beyonce, eminem, Jay-Z, Amy Winehouse, Sublime
The six things I could never do without
my immediate family
my nephew
my cousins
my friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
movies and TV. I cant help it. I chose to work in both because I love them and that hasn't stopped yet.
On a typical Friday night I am
There are a few options. Hanging out with friends and making dinner listening to music. Or going out for dinner and drinks...and if the mood hits dancing!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 24–31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You would like to start up a conversation obviously.

I find it hard to tell someone what I am looking for, when I am not sure myself.

I guess I want someone who is a really nice compliment to myself. Someone who will be willing to lay on the couch and watch a movie with me, but who will also yell for us to go out, when I want to do that 5 days in a row. Someone who will watch Glee and the NBA playoffs with me.

Looking for someone who I can potentially start a future with (that future might be a year or it might be a lifetime...but lets start with a date and work from pressure.)