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Batly_Bearfoot

38 / F / bisexual / Married

Carthage, Texas

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of two-year college
Job
Unemployed
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am curvaceous, polyamorous, and shy.

My Self-Summary

I am a BBW mother, wife, who has few friends, and none close geographically right now. I would love to change that. I spend most of my time doing puzzles (Jigzone.com, and number puzzles mostly), and taking care of my toddler. I am 38, brunette, and not very active right now. Which is something else I would like to change. I love my husband and anyone wanting to be my friend or more will have to accept that. I am bi, poly, and pagan, and will not put up with anyone trying to "save" me. I have two children, and am trying for my 3rd and last child with my husband. I live in East Texas and love it here, but find it hard to find friends. I don't like hiding my "spots" from friends (no, I'm not really spotted). I also find it hard to write about myself, so I will add more as I think of what to say.

What I’m doing with my life

I am a stay-at-home-mom right now. I would like to do more crafts, but my hands hurt a lot when I do. We recently got goats, so, I help with them too.

I’m really good at

Paper mache. I made a dragon in high school that I am particularly proud of, and a parrot after my first child was born that I liked a lot more than my roommates live parrot. Mine was a lot quieter.

The first things people usually notice about me

That I am fat (there, I said it!), then, that I have a big boobs. Although, I like to think that they would get to know me before drawing any conclusions about me.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: science fiction, mystery, anything by Heinlein.

Movies: Mostly science fiction (detecting a theme?)

TV: CSI, NCIS, Law and Order, Battle Star Galactica, Dr. Who (old and new), Torchwood, Heroes, Dirty Job (Mike, what a man!), Survivor Man, Discovery Channel, Fox News

Music: Mostly adult contemporary, but open to most anything

Food: Yes, love it!

The six things I could never do without

my children, my husband, my eyes, my hands, my loves

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What I should be doing that I'm not. I am a big procrastinator. This is my biggest flaw.

On a typical Friday night I am

At home with my children. I am a bit of a homebody. I find it hard to go out. That and there isn't much to do around here. I would fish a lot more if the mosquitoes would leave me alone.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am Polyamorous, bi-sexual, and pagan.

You should message me if

You would like to know more about me. Are looking for a friend, or possibly more.