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39 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:52pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Very often
Working on Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Honest non-monogamous dude. Pockmarck, Freshwater Swab, Blistering Barnacle and Thundering Typhoon. I'm in a loving, long distance, open marriage, so if you're ok with that, read on...

I'm the kind of person who gets really into certain things, trying to maximize quality experiences - records and audio, shaving with a double-edge and brush, building bicycles, etc. I'm getting in touch with my masculine side, I have a dominant streak, and I've got a little salt-and-pepper in my stubble these days.

I'm here for friends and sex, not relationships - if you agree that "casual sex" can mean "enjoy each other's company in and out of bed, treat each other like human beings, and be honest," let's get a drink.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm in a doctoral program for mathematics education, and I'm done with the classroom for the time being. In the fall I'll be exposing kids to mathematical masterpieces part time while dissertating. When not working or studying (i.e. slicing time into very thin increments) I'm buying vinyl records and listening to them, drinking good beer in crappy bars, and practicing stand-up comedy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Waking up three minutes before the alarm goes off
Being honest
Being kind
Fixing bicycles
Algebraic topology
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm sure it's my sparkling blue eyes and biting wit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I grew up with Springsteen the same way most people grow up with church. I've determined that London Calling is the greatest rock & roll album ever recorded and I dare anyone to prove otherwise. I read Discworld and Carl Hiaasen and nerdy nonfiction (math/science/psychology). I've spent the last several months learning to cook spectacular omlettes. I like movies with chainsaws and boobs, and shows where men call each other "cunt."
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My manly-man wetshaving kit, my steampunk-lookin' e-cig, my beloved sl-1200 turntable, my complete set of Tintin books, JSTOR, and my sadly neglected bicycle.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The uneasy balance between the individual and the group.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Unplugging my brain.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I was once stripped naked and teased onstage by a stripper in a strip club in Barcelona (on the strip). Unlike several other victims, I managed to maintain my... Composure.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have the cojones to put "down to earth" in your profile and mean it, because you really are down to earth, goddammit!