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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 6:03pm
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Average build
Working on Post grad
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), C++ (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My sixth grade teacher once called me a "thoughtful goofball." I think that sums me up nicely.

I'm married, we are open and have been for years. Not so much poly as relationship anarchist. I'm looking for smart women who like a stiff drink followed by spontaneous, adventurous sex. Rinse, repeat; it takes a few rounds to get to know what a partner likes, and if I find someone I can really hang with, an ongoing thing would be great.

From Boston, by way of NYC. Still a Red Sox fan. Baseball is mostly a game of strategy, and I'm not particularly into sports. Left wing, not religious, a little dominant.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
In the past I taught math to prison inmates, worked as a bike messenger, played ultimate, performed stand-up comedy, and snowboarded obsessively. Currently I'm writing a dissertation and growing a small online math education startup.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Waking up three minutes before the alarm goes off
Being honest
Being kind
Fixing bicycles
Algebraic topology
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I smell good. But you can't smell me online.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I grew up with Springsteen the same way most people grow up with church. I've determined that London Calling is the greatest rock & roll album ever recorded and I dare anyone to prove otherwise. I read Discworld and Carl Hiaasen and nerdy nonfiction (math/science/psychology). I've spent the last several months learning to cook spectacular omlettes. I like movies with chainsaws and boobs, and shows where men call each other "cunt."
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My manly-man wetshaving kit, my MacBook, my beloved sl-1200 turntable, my complete set of Tintin books, JSTOR, and my sadly neglected bicycle.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The uneasy balance between the individual and the group.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Unplugging my brain.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was once stripped naked and teased onstage by a stripper in a strip club in Barcelona (on the strip). Unlike several other victims, I managed to maintain my... Composure.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
What annoys you? What really bugs you? Here we are on the internet, trying to be our best selves, totally positive, but I've found that you can learn a lot about someone if you find out what gets their goat. Message me and tell me, and I promise not to judge. It probably annoys me too.