I am a single mom who loves my 6 1/2 yr old daughter very much. I
have hardly dated at all since my 9 year marriage to her father
broke up nearly 5 years ago. I love spending time with my daughter
and anyone I dated would have to know that she came first and have
to get along with her too but that doesn't mean that I don't miss
the company of adults!
I'm slow to warm up but a fun,geeky chick when you get to know me.I
love animals and nature and my idea of a good time would be to take
a walk in the park or go up to Jones Gap or out to a waterfall. I
would also enjoy an evening in, cooking dinner (though I'm not a
great cook!), watching a movie or some britcoms or playing
videogames. I believe you don't have to spend a lot of money to
have a good time.
I'm really not looking for anything that might turn into another
marriage (at least not yet!) I am strictly polyamourous (if you
don't know,just ask!) which may be a challenge to some people but
which I find very freeing. I am not interested in helping you cheat
on your wife/spouse/significant other. Open relationships or single
people only please! I am looking for a lover in the classical
sense...someone to spend a couple of months,maybe a year with...to
share good times,stimulating conversations,good food and sure some
What I’m doing with my life
I am an animal groomer out of my home although the money has not
been so good recently and I have been looking for a second job
(with very little luck in this economy!) I mostly spend my time
maintaining my home and raising my daughter which is nearly a full
time job in and of itself!
The first things people usually notice about me
I think they probably notice my tattoos first.I am tattooed across
a big chunk of my body including most of my right arm and hand. So
I would be willing to bet that they are the first thing many people
notice about me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
MY favorite books are whatever I can get my hands on! I read about
3-5 books a week. Reading is my absolute favorite thing to do. My
favorite show is Doctor Who without a doubt,but I love all things
British and also lots of anime. It's hard to say what my favorite
music is...I love Dar Williams but I also love The Mountain Goats,
Modest Mouse and lots of classic rock made before I was even born.
My favorite food is sushi but my favorite drink is coffee...I
couldn't live without it and drink it all day long!
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to improve my life and my daughter's life. Thing are really up
in the air for us right now and I would like to get us on a more
On a typical Friday night I am
at home reading a book. Exciting right? Welcome to my action packed
life! I love it though...I would love to get out a little bit but I
am a real homebody...I used to be a real party girl but having my
child calmed me right down and now my idea of a good time is to
spend a quiet evening in. A few nights out every now and again
would probably be good for me but I'm never going to be the kind of
woman who wants out (or who has the babysitter to get out) several
nights a week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The most private thing I am willing to admit is that I am a
survivor of long-term domestic violence. Even though it may make me
seem like "damaged goods" I think it is important for someone who
might date me to know because it colors the way I look at intimate
relationships and certainly makes me leary of getting back into
another long term relationship.
You should message me if
You are looking for a new partner, lover or friend not if you are
looking for a wife or something long term...been there,done that...