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Bay_Wolf

26 / M / straight / Available

Oakland, California

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Ethnicity
Undeclared
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Athletic
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Sign_Language (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am patient, random, and alive.

My Self-Summary

I am an unorthodox human living in Oakland. I have a basement so that I can work on all those crazy projects I always have going. I am a bartender in the Dogpatch, which works well enough for me at the moment. I am now pursuing a career in keeping people alive long enough to make it to a hospital (EMS). I climb trees in Mendocino, buildings in San Francisco, people in Arcata, and art in Black Rock City. I am not what you expect, so don't.

I don't go out of my way to contact people much. I usually just wait until the daring or curious ones contact me first.

What I’m doing with my life

Working in an organic wine bar in San Francisco. Staying calm when people freak out. I quit school because it was holding me back from truly learning. Trying to be a good friend/lover/employee. Not practicing Sign Language as much as I should be. Pushing myself to complete a route more difficult then 5.11C.

Also, I am preparing for the impending apocalypse. It could come as swarms of Zombies, Aliens, Robots, Nuclear War, or Small Super-Powered Marsupials, but it will come. And I will be ready for it.

I’m really good at

Driving. Surviving. Storytelling. Fighting. Remembering faces. Talking to Animals. Anything with my hands. Being there when I am needed. Listening to my body. Listening to the Seasons. Dealing with emergency situations.

The first things people usually notice about me

The odd way I dress. My large nose (which could have been indirectly responsible for the fall of the Ottoman Empire). My on-again, off-again mohawk. The fact that I don't dress appropriately for the weather. My nakedness (it happens more often then you may think).

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: endgame; The Dispossessed, Ender's Game; The Zombie Survival guide; Choke; The Tao Te Ching; Transmetropolitan; Alita. Also, anything by Raymond E. Feist, Ursala K. LeGuin, Chuck Palahniuk, or Derrick Jensen.

Movies: Alien; The Fountain; Fight Club; Short Bus; Serenity; Miller's Crossing; Jin Roh: The Wolf Brigade; Donnie Darko; Princess Mononoke; The Princess Bride; The Princess and the Warrior; 28 Days Later; Punch Drunk Love; Rivers and Tides.

Shows: Firefly; Carnivale; Dexter; Daybreak; Scrapped Princess; Mythbusters; Survivor Man; The Black Donnellys.

Music: Mostly Trip-Hop, Ambient, Folk Rock, Industrial, Down Tempo, and the occasional Alternative Rock band (as if that is any kind of specific). Tool; Iron & Wine; VAST; Soul Coughing; Boards of Canada; Massive Attack; Oghr; Coldplay; The Shins; Lunatic Calm; Four Tet; RJD2; Placebo; DJ Shadow; Radiohead.

Food: Anything good. What Defines good? Less processing = good; simple = good; organic = good; local = good. I usually avoid red meat and dairy.

Places: Arcata; Mendocino; Albion; Black Rock City; The Yolla Bollys; Oakland; Serena (Costa Rica).

Video Games: Shadow of the Colossus; Chrono Trigger; Half-Life 2; Mirror's Edge.

The six things I could never do without

Breath, Water, Nature, Physical Contact, Dreams, a good Jacket and sturdy pair of boots, the occasional quiet solitude I need to regroup, the will to NOT follow all rules set before me.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Everything. But mostly the people I care about, projects I am working on, and how Zombie-proof a building is. The end of the world. Body Modifications.

I just had a fantasy of Les Claypool doing a collaboration album with System of a Down. Thought I should share that.

On a typical Friday night I am

Working (AKA Getting people really drunk). Making lists. Daydreaming. Driving. Talking on OKC. Proving to the world that Ninja are far superior to Pirates. Making out (if I am very very lucky).

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am poly and I wouldn't have it any other way. This is actually not a secret or even private, but I just thought I should point it out.

I am not a secretive person. If you want to know anything about me, just ask. Seriously.

You should message me if

You want to tell me what the first thing you noticed about me was.

You want to do something active. Rock Climbing, Lacrosse, Running, Biking, Swimming, Sparring, Shinai, Hiking, you name it.

You want to do something inactive. Boardgames, watching GOOD movies or shows, video games, RPing, Eating, Drinking, etc.

You want to tell me a story or you want me to tell YOU a story.