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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–70
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 13
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
My self-summary
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I'm a fun loving intelligent lady. I have many interests and I am curious and I love to learn. I read a lot, I am a writer and an educator. I am creative and intuitive and kind of emotional. I don't hide my feelings as well as I'd like to think I do. I'm expressive and articulate and I love to laugh and I love to make people laugh. I confess I giggle sometimes too. I love American football and tennis and muscle cars.

I love going to concerts and to sporting events and to museums and galleries and lectures. I cook and I love good food. I like men who are clever and funny and i prefer to date white men. I moderate a few groups on Facebook for people who date/married interracially.

I love to travel and while I have been to a lot of places I like, there are still many places I would love to see.

I love classic rock and jazz and old school R&B. My favorites include Pink Floyd, The Who, the Stones, Led Zeppelin, the Beatles, Parliament/Funkadelic, Paul Hardcastle and lots of others. I am presently working on a few books I would like to have published.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have been an educator - teaching college English and literature. I have worked with the poor and I co-created an anti-racism group. I truly believe that my calling in life is to be of service to others in helping them improve their lives. Right now, I am writing and hope to sell several books and an anthology I am working on. I also work in public relations and marketing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a very good writer. I love writing. It's cathartic for me and it's the way I express myself the best. That's not to say I am not articulate because I am. I'm not afraid to speak in public - I've done it and done it well for years. I'm a caring loving and loyal person when I am secure in the person I am with.
I have a great sense of humor and I am mischievous. I can make you laugh. I;m good at that too.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have big eyes that are hard to miss. I'm expressive so you can usually tell what I am thinking - if I want you to know. I am youthful and kinda sassy or so I am told. I'm not loud - in fact, I speak softly most of the time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love to read so I have lots of favorite books and authors. A few are Walter Mosley, Anne Rice and Octavia Butler.I love old movies and I watch television but not reality television. I like documentaries and interesting things like Curiosity, Engineering an Empire and lots of things like that. I am a big classic rock fan and my favorites are Pink Floyd, the Beatles, the Who, the Stones and Led Zeppelin. I also love old school R&B like Parliament/Funkadelic, James Brown, the Whispers and Motown, Stax lots of others. I love Vietnamese food, Chinese food and classic American dishes. Nothing beats a great steak.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, my books, my laptop, my cat, my friends and my family.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I want to write, being on the beach in Florida, helping my family, my friends, being happy, finding a good guy to be happy with, great music and all the fun things I have done in life and still intend to do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On my computer, writing, talking to my friends and watching old movies on TCM.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I write interracial erotica.
You should message me if
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You have something great to say.
You think you can make me laugh.
You think you are the one I've been looking for.
You have some things in common with me.
If you are interesting, cool and clever.
You are a man I would be interested in.