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BeNice_HaveFun

49 F San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 29
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a city girl who was raised in the small town world of northern Minnesota. I escaped the frozen tundra in 1988, landing in San Francisco in 2005 by way of Chicago and New York. My personal motto is: Work Hard, Have Fun, Be Nice. I live by these words. I’m a huge fan of satire and think that Jon Stewart and Stephan Colbert are geniuses. I love to teach people new things and get my fix as a volunteer leading a comparative architecture walking tour of downtown San Francisco. I adore spending time with the intellectually curious, witty, adventurous, and slightly edgy crowd. They are my mother-ship. I just read that human behavioral studies suggest that people who use a lot swear words tend to be more honest and trustworthy, so now I feel a lot better about my potty-mouth.

Things that make me happy: good food, dive bars, close friends, city living, animals, funny people, music, learning new things, a peaceful and beautiful home, cooking, independent films, exploring uncharted territory, curling up with a good book, give and take, WTF podcast, kind gestures, raconteurs and bowling.

Things that bum me out: closed minds, lowest common denominator, mean people, crappy weather, contrarians, raisins in food for no good reason, taking the easy way out, hypocrisy, one-upsmanship and an appalling lack of appropriate turn signal etiquette.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Pretty much workin' hard, havin' fun and being nice all over the place. I'm a designer by trade and love what i do for a living. I'm taking voice lessons so I can be a back-up singer in case the design gig doesn't work out. I'm nice to pretty much everybody, unless they exhibit douche-y behavior or too much ennui, then I just steer clear.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Spatial relationships, figuring out what ingredients are in restaurant dishes and telepathically communicating with my pets to get them to do my bidding.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My sense of style, dry wit and big brown eyes. People tell me I have freckles, but I don't see it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Mysteries, Historical Fiction, anything funny
Movies: Independent films, Documentaries, Comedies; pretty much anything with a plot that doesn’t rely on blowing things up.
SHOWS: The Daily Show, Colbert Report, CBS Sunday Morning, Bob’s Burgers, Parks & Recreation, Nova, Drunk History, Orange is the New Black
MUSIC: Recent iTunes downloads – Aimee Mann, Justin Timberlake, Ayub Ogada, Benjamin Gibbard, Bobby McFarrin.
FOOD: Pretty much anything except raisins (see above), offal, and eggplant. Newest culinary rabbit hole: Bavarian Pretzels with Cheddar / Horseradish Pub Cheese. So bad, it's good.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Laughter
2) Kindness
3) Joy
4) My animals
5) Creative Outlet
6) Chocolate
Oh, who am I kidding - I'd probably shrivel up and die if someone took my iPhone away. Then I'd have to do things the old-fashioned way and I don't think I know how to anymore.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Memorizing the songs for my next voice class, getting my website updated, the project I'm designing, making sure I drink enough water and what's for dinner. That's right now. Ask me later and you'll probably get a very different list.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Something a little low key like a movie or dinner with friends. I'm usually pretty tapped out by the end of the week, so a quiet Friday night gives me a lot more energy for fun the rest of the weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I’ll probably have to turn in my She-Lady Club membership card for admitting this, but I’m getting really tired of being super independent and hyper-self sufficient all the time. Being single is great, but being in a solid relationship sounds a whole lot more fun. I am certainly not looking for someone to complete me; that would be weird. I just think it would be nice to share new experiences with a like-minded person and see where it takes us.
You should message me if
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You love your fantastic life, but think it could be even better with a great side kick. You're a smarty-pants. You love to laugh. You can enjoy yourself at dive bar as much as at fine dining establishments. You think being greeted at the door by a dog and cat is a good thing. You're up for new adventures. You see the irony of 20 year olds wearing Members Only jackets. If so, we'll probably get along pretty well. If you think the government shutdown is necessary, then probably not so much. It's your call.