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56 • Evanston, IL • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 45–60
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 6:48pm
- 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
- Body type
- Other, and very serious about it
- Libra, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Has kids
I'm happy, fit, irreverent, and friendly. I love listening to and making different types of music. I enjoy engaging conversations with people who think like me, and especially with those who don't. I accept other points of view with respect, and expect the same. I try not to take myself too seriously. Life is what we make of it and I'm creating positivity.
I've spent a long time getting good at a job that I love, and it's a good day when I learn new things at work. I also consider myself a lifelong learner and would really enjoy learning from you. I might even be able to show you something new, too.
I'm not looking to change you. I know you're fabulous, talented, lovely, and amazing, "just the way you are".
If we start hanging out, you'll be happy because - I'll figure out a way to keep you happy.
You should get to know me!
It's kind of funny that for much of my life I rejected/resisted internal change. Oops. Pulling a 180 here and looking to improve as much as possible in this area.
I am aiming to practice unconditional love on others and on myself. I really think that's all there is.
A recent panel of female friends called me "approachable and cute". Same sources said they'd be surprised if I stay single for long. I hope they're right!
Music - yes. I'm an amateur piano and guitar player, and just bought a djembe. I can dig most any kind of music, cool cat that I am. What do you like?
I just started uploading practice videos to YouTube. If you're nice I'll let you critique me, haha. Be nice!
Movies - sure. I get my $7.99 worth of Netflix! OK, I'll pass on horror.
My daughter and others are influencing me to eat more vegetarian-ish. I'm becoming a believer in eating well. Better late than never, right? (sweating the 1.875 pounds still.)
2. That thing inside which we all have
3. The indescribable feeling after working out, dancing, or playing instruments
What would they pay me to be that much happier? OK I'll accept payment in SMILES!
You want to show off what's special about you. I'll be very impressed.
And THAT, was just the beginning of the story.
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