I have no interest in controlling your personal life. So none of that 24/7 master/slave stuff. I respect all boundaries and safety. I know the difference between fun/pleasure and taking advantage of someone. If both parties are not enjoying it, there's no point to it. I like to be friends with who the women I play with. I also maintain everyone's privacy. My preference is for FWBs rather than one night stands.
I'm NOT into needles, whipping, suspension, extreme pain, leaving marks/scars. I am more of a bare hands kind of guy. I rather see you is heels, nylon stockings or pantyhose than a rubber outfit. Don't expect whips, masks or gimps. Oh yeah, no helicopters either. Don't ask me if I'm on Fetlife. I am not interested in meeting "lifestyle" people, couples or groups.
There is no list of things I like to do. I’m not into checking off a list of stuff we read in a book or manual. It is different with each person. Each combination of two people brings about different things. I am open to what our trip or journey will be based on our chemistry.
I mention "FWB" because I believe things should start at a friendship level. Mutual respect needs to be established. Outside the bedroom it needs to be clear that we respect each other and can treat each other as friends. That what we do in the bedroom does not debase you as a person, regardless of what we do.
I am open to closeness and intimacy. I am definitely capable of loving unconditionally - an ability I have found most people lack. However, I don’t assume (or believe in) the idea that closeness, intimacy and commitment means ownership of the other person.
Do not message me If you can not let go or take a break from conventional ideas about friendship(s), relationships, dating, gender stereotypes and slut/whore/virgin constructs. Do message me if you think theres more to the ways humans relate and you are open to discuss and/or explore that.
I don't have a face photo in my profile for a reason. I'm not sharing face photos with just anyone who asks or is just simply curious. Don't start your first email with "can I see a photo?" I assure you, I am handsome, tall, slim, good looking, etc.
When you write, tell me more about what you are looking for (and why you are writing me). Is this something you are seriously looking to explore or are you just window shopping? This profile seems to attract a lot of tire kickers, the curios (but not serious), and even catfish. I want to make sure I screen people well before sharing personal information like photos, names and email address.
Yes, that is me in the black & white photo.