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39 M New York, NY

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Native American, Hispanic / Latin, White
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
For me, this is not about props, clubs, subculture, lifestyle, titles, scripts or formulas, but about exploring the intimate chemistry and intimate boundaries with another individual. I have no interest in controlling your personal life. So none of that 24/7 master/slave stuff. I respect all boundaries and safety. I know the difference between fun/pleasure and taking advantage of someone. If both parties are not enjoying it, there's no point to it. I like to be friends with who the women I play with. I also maintain everyone's privacy. My preference is for FWBs rather than one night stands.

I'm NOT into needles, whipping, suspension, extreme pain, leaving marks/scars. I am more of a bare hands kind of guy. Don't expect whips, chains, masks or gimps.

There is no list of things I like to do. I’m not into checking off a list of stuff we read in a book or manual. It is different with each person. Each combination of two people brings about different things. I am open to what our trip or journey will be based on our chemistry.

Mutual respect needs to be established. Outside the bedroom it needs to be clear that we respect each other and can treat each other as friends. That what we do in the bedroom does not debase you as a person, regardless of what we do.

I don't have a face photo in my profile for a reason. I'm not sharing face photos with just anyone who asks or is just simply curious. Don't start your first email with "can I see a photo?" I assure you, I am handsome, tall, slim, good looking, etc. I don't think it is wrong (for me) to want to know more about you before sharing my photo. I want to know that you are into this, and not just poking round asking to see my photo for curiosity sake.

When you write, tell me more about what you are looking for. Is this something you are seriously looking to explore or are you just window shopping? I want to make sure I screen people well before sharing personal information like photos, names and email addresses.

Yes, that is me in the black & white photo.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not the anglo boy next door. If you are looking for Ken, keep clicking to the next profile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Don't write to tell me about how much you enjoyed 50 Shades of Grey. The book:
or the movie:

I'd rather talk about "Sex At Dawn" or "The Ethical Slut." Feel free to Google those (non-fiction) titles. Perhaps even films like: "Is a Tall Man Happy?" or "A Pervert's Guide To Ideology." Yes, these are available on Netflix.

"You do not need to be loved—not at the cost of yourself. The single relationship that is truly central in a life is a relationship with your self. It is rewarding to find someone you like, but essential to like yourself. It is quickening to recognize that someone is a good and decent human being, but it is indispensable to view your own self that way. It is a delight to discover people who are worthy of respect, admiration and love, but it is vital to believe yourself deserving of respect, admiration and love, for you cannot live in someone else. Of all the people that you will ever know in a lifetime, you are the only one that you will never lose or leave. To the question of your life, you’re the answer, and to the problems of your life, you’re the solution." – Jo Coudert
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sex positivity and the possibilities of sexual expression/exploration in a responsible, pleasurable, healthy manner that transcends gender roles, shame/guilt, social expectations and convention.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What it would be like to have a something purely physical. No words. Just total physical exchange and expression.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If you want to know more about me, just read my Q&As or ask questions of your own.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are intelligent, open minded, and d/d free. You enjoy submitting. Not that you have to do so off the bat. But you know where I'm ultimately taking you. Experience is not necessary, but the desire to explore is.

Let's keep it simple and straight forward. I'm not looking for an exclusive LTR, but mutual respect is a must. I am not jealous or possessive and I expect the same.

I have no preconceived expectations about relationships and am therefore open to many different types of friendship(s) or relationships(s) as long as there is chemistry and connection. I do not need to know how a relationship will develop or where it is headed as long as it is healthy and mutually beneficial. I am open to a casual friendship or more involved relationship should it develop naturally.

I rather meet sooner than later. I prefer not to have endless emails and IMs before meeting. We can meet for drinks or even coffee/tea, on neutral grounds. No promises. No Expectations. If things go well, we can meet again and start our adventure.

I'm only looking for the above requirements. What you are doing with your life, income, religion, age, race or match percentage are not important in this setting.

It's extremely unlikely that I will message you first. This is not the sort of profile where I will go around sending messages. Also, I understand that this may be the sort of thing someone may want, but is afraid to say it in their profile. If you want it, show me you are ready or even curious.