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40 M Effingham, IL

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 21
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Dropped out of two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more

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My self-summary
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I'm an energetic and spontaneous person, who likes to have fun. I'm looking for someone to do things with. Be it whatever, movies, dinner, catching some live music, or just getting a cup of coffee. I can be witty, funny, and a complete dork. A funny dork, but a dork non the less. ha ha. See. Sarcasm, is apart of my daily life. If you do not enjoy or understand sarcasm, then you wouldn't like me.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to make the best of whatever comes my way.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Really? You want me to brag about myself? Ok, I am a really good listener, I'm really good at my job, I think that I am a really good basketball player, I am really good at making people laugh. I am a really good father.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My arms, they are not huge, but I do have a muscular physique. My nickname growing up was Popeye, hence the Olive Oil username.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite food is definitely lasagna, favorite show ncis, favorite movie The Wedding Singer,(don't ask me why, I don't even know)
my favorite music really kinda varies on my mood.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Never is a really strong word to use here. There are alot of things that I wouldn't want to do without, but I don't know about never. My son is the most important thing, and my family are always there for me. Friends are vital. Food and water are a necessicity. Clothing optional. ha ha
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My son, and how I can be the best father to him.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It depends, either I go out with friends, and then every other weekend I have my son.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Who writes these questions? I mean really. Private, usually means private! I might share private information with a significant other. Anyway got to be a little mysterious. Ok here is one that is not so private but a little fun fact. I think that "lol" is the most over used 3 letters. I mean if you really think about it, are your really laughing out loud, or just smiling and laughing inside. I would say that probably 90% of the time is the later. Next time you think about sending lol, think just for a second, and are you really laughing out loud. And then you think of the guy on Ok Cupid that made you stop and think about it. Then you will be thinking about me again. Think about it. I will now be in your thoughts for the rest of your life. Well maybe not the rest, but for a good while.
You should message me if
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There is no "if", if you are interested just message me and we will go from there.