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46 / M / gay / Available

Noblesville, Indiana

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Skinny
Looking For
New friends, Casual sex
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism and very serious about it
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Sign_Language (Poorly)

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I am artistic, humourous, and charming.

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My Self-Summary

I am an actor/playwright/director living in Noblesville... this means I have a "day job" and do theatre on the side. My "day job" is as a barista at the Hamilton Town Center Mall Borders. I was a member of the Actors' Equity Association and am a member of the Dramatists' Guild.

Latest project will be a show in this year's IndyFringe Festival written and directed by me and starring me and my pal Adam O. Crowe. It's called Wanda & Rhonda's Bitchin' Bingo Bash and has five performances during the week of the IndyFringe festival. For more info checkout www.wandaandrhonda.com or www.indyfringe.org.

On a personal note: Currently in an open relationship: we're committed, but open to possibilities (together and apart). Wanna know more? Just ask.

What I’m doing with my life

Struggling artist with a day job. I'd love to land a gig writing fulltime (or acting) for a TV series... but, for now, I'll settle for stage work.

I’m really good at

Acting, writing, directing, various sexual activities, and listening.

The first things people usually notice about me

My smile and my sense of humor. (And for some weird reason, girls think I have great legs... go figure.)

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

a) Jen Lancaster,JK Rowling, Sarah Vowell, Clive Barker, and more recently Wally Lamb, currently reading I Know This Much Is True.
b) All About Eve, The Dark Knight, Closer, Milk, Across the Universe, and Coraline..
c) Barenaked Ladies, Queen, Nanci Griffith, Duffy, Leona Lewis, and Adam Lambert!.
d) anything BUT French cuisine, beets, and liver.

The six things I could never do without

DVDs, the Internet, laughter, the sun, friends, and milk. (Although I might trade out the sun for white chocolate.)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

If there's an afterlife, how to get "discovered," and if there's a chemical reaction when people fall in love.

On a typical Friday night I am

Working or at a theatre opening.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I cry when I watch sappy movies -- knowing full well I'm supposed to -- and get really MAD at myself for being manipulated so easily, I've experimented with various drugs and sex scenarios, and I think the gay community is far too hung up on age and appearance.

You should message me if

You want to.

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