I get along best with women who are independent minded without being controlling ... a rare combination (in both men and women) that I have yet to truly find.
You're self-confident enough to share your inner child. You can be privately passionate, laugh easily, and enjoy being alone together instead of in a crowd. You're a giver not a taker. You have creative or artistic sensitivities (if not an artist), with a passion for life and living.
We can maintain our independent and individual selves without clinging. But when we're alone together we are each other's total universe. An enjoyable weekend might include a lighthearted movie or intense discussion ... or just snuggling with a movie and popcorn ... or a day trip and photo shoot ... or cooking dinner together, and daring to consider a food fight.
Having said all that, I reject the online dating mantra -- evaluating each other as marriage partners from the very first date (or email!). I'm also needing just a few friends to converse and hang out with. I'm that guy you could talk with in high school, and I genuinely enjoy the company of women.
I'm independent but sharing, serious and silly, and, I'm told, comfortable.