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Bearlybent

52 Toronto, Ontario, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–65
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:51am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Pisces
Education
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am polyamorous and Dominant-identified. I live with my wonderful partner dazzle11215 just west of the Annex area of Toronto. I also have a long-distance connection 4 hours west of me. It's difficult to have the ability to spend time with the LDR but we try to make it work.

The word "bisexual" doesn't really describe me currently, but it's much better than "straight". It's an important part of my activism and my life experiences over the last 20 years, but I am much more likely to have emotional attachments with straight, bisexual or queer women as opposed to an emotional connection with another man.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm trying to work at moving on from the work I've been doing too long, for my own good. I'm a longtime activist in the local bisexual community and one of many caregivers for my parents.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Activism. Listening and comforting people. Hugs and cuddles. Certain, more, er, intimate things, according to partners past and present.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes. "You're cute!" is a phrase I have often heard over the last 15 or so years.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love British comedies (especially anything Monty Python-related), superhero movies, "Aliens", "Who Framed Roger Rabbit", "Absolutely Fabulous", 80's new wave, disco, EDM, ambient music and Parliament. Just for starters.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My partner. My friends who have stuck with me through the last 15+ years. Grilled cheese sandwiches. People who are bluntly honest, sometimes almost too much, because they care. Quiet cuddles. Sex.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Wherever the future may take me. Important people in my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Perhaps busy, perhaps not. If I'm not, maybe you can do something about it. If you can't do that on Friday night, maybe you could do that on a Saturday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Toys are my friends. You figure that one out. :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're polyamorous or poly-positive.
You love cuddles, hugs, and fun explorations.
You know what a quirt looks like.
You consider yourself an open-minded soul.
Please be aware that I am not necessarily looking for any new relationships, but one cannot have enough friends. If something develops, that would be great, but a strong preference would be for it to be in Toronto. Together with my live-in partner, we are open to making new play-friends. With her full knowledge, I'm open to finding a play partner.

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