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38 M Hartford, CT

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  • Ages 18–50
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 4″ (1.63m)
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Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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A Ph.D. in Philosophy who's sold nearly everything to travel around the country for the next year in a tiny RV.

I've prayed with monks on Mt. Sinai in Egypt and lectured on Metaphysics and the Philosophy of Science at Cambridge.

I was going to become a monk until I lost my virginity to an idol worshipper while on a pilgrimage to the Holy Land. (I did manage to dig up the cornerstone to king Herod's temple in Caesarea while I was at it).

I've taught Philosophy and Logic courses to college kids at Notre Dame and 12- to 15-year-old kids at summer camps for gifted children (who I absolutely adore -- and who are way smarter than most Notre Dame students!)

In fifth grade I read the Bible from cover to cover, then repeated until I lost count of how many times I had. I started studying Hebrew, Latin and Greek before I even had a driver's license (thanks for driving me to the synagogue on the weekends, mom and dad!). Today, I've recently completed my Ph.D. in Philosophy of Religion, and begun self-publishing erotic fiction for fun.

I founded a group for men to have honest conversations about their sex, dating and relationship lives, that brought together literally hundreds of men from all walks of life in Chicago. I've made then lost more money in real estate than I care to think about, but now my properties allow me the luxury of no longer needing to work when I don't want to.

When I look back across my life, I can see times I've fallen so low I wondered if I would ever stand again, but in the end I have always found a way to survive, to reinvent myself, and to turn whatever life sent my way into a win. It's fitting that in ancient astrology Scorpio (my sign) is both a scorpion and an eagle -- the highest of the high and the lowest of the low -- and a symbol of transformation.
What I’m doing with my life
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A few years ago, I sold almost everything I owned, bought a small RV, and started traveling around the country looking for a city that would capture my heart. Having traveled through most of Florida and some of the North East, I've stopped in Chicago until I complete my dissertation. After that, I'll head wherever the spirit moves me... Unless perhaps a beautiful woman convinces me to stay.
I’m really good at
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I'll leave that to you to decide. ;-)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Women often compliment me on my eyes... But are they being sincere, or are they just after "one thing"? Who can a boy trust these days? Still, flattery is a great weakness of mine. You might try it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm not opposed to it, but I don't watch much TV.

As for books, I have well over a thousand, ranging from philosophy to psychology to ancient history and languages, religion, and a plethora of books on self-help and personal growth of various sorts. Still, as much as it may sound like a cop-out, I honestly don't think anybody will ever top Plato or Aristotle.

OK, I used to watch "Rock of Love" when it was on... Guilty pleasure.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Learning and Growth
The triad of Honesty, Integrity and Trust
Good Sex (which can be all of the above)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Deciphering ancient Greek manuscripts and finding ways to represent the ideas they express in modern systems of symbolic logic... As usual.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Ideally, meeting people and making new friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a thing for girls with big, goofy noses.

I also have a big soft spot for children.
You should message me if
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You are not just intelligent, but insightful.

You are an unapologetic nerd / dork / geek.

You want to skip the emailing and actually meet up -- but are willing to meet without any particular expectations... You just enjoy the process.

Either you have interesting things to say... or you are sexy as fuck.

Finally, you don't have to be a petite brunette with long hair and sparkling eyes. But you should know that I am attracted to that type of women. And I hope you are too. ;-)