Hi there, I'm here to make some friends and 'if' I find a special someone that would be even better, yipeee! :-) Hopefully I will find my special boy, so we can give each other lots of love and cuddles :-)

I'm Irish, from Dublin but now live in Hertfordshire, near London. I'm kind, caring, very loving and loyal to those I hold dearest to my heart. A good listener, huh, sorry, what was that? but I also love a good chat.

I'm looking for a guy who is kind and caring also. Compassionate, helpful, and fantastic in the sack, oh yes I have a points sheet...marks from 1 to 10 :-) That's a joke by the way!!!!!!!!!! Sense of humour and silliness is a must.
If this is you, please get in touch. If I don't think we are for each other, please don't be nasty to me. We're all attracted to different people and different qualities!!

Must also stress, I'm ONLY looking for guys close enough to where I live. So if you are on another continent, come on, use your noodle will you :-)
And if you're only out of nappies please move along to a younger model. I don't exist to fulfull your sexual fantasies.

Breathing, sleeping, living, having fun, laughing, smiling, being happy. I'm moany and opinionated at times but that just means I'm not apathetic.

If you want to know more about me I'll tell you in a message :-)

I'm really good at making people laugh. But if you have a face that looks like you've just had a wet weekend in Brighton, then even I'm not that good. Even if you dont laugh I will at least get a smile out of you. (But not you wet weekenders in Brighton of course)!!!

I'm good at being loving and caring. It's in my nature to be so, no room for selfishness in my world ( yeah right ).

Being a mother has taught me to have caring qualities, to deal with things in a calm and rational way and be very responsible. But mostly to be very silly, as I've had to be a playmate as well as mother for my son. He's nearly 20 now so he doesn't want to play anymore :-(
Don't know why!! Spoilsport.

My eyes, then my accent :-)

....Oh and did I mention the limp, I don't have one really. I just do it for effect :-)

I love listening to Muse, Depeche Mode, The Cure, David Bowie, The Smiths lots, lots, lots of music. And when I have money and of course more improtantly when thay are playing, I love to see live bands. I 've yet to see Depeche Mode play live and when I do, I'll be a happy woman :-)

Food, mmm, I love Mexican and Indian ( homemade)...food that is.
And I have a penchant for Mediteranian food at present, slurp!!

I like thrillers and real life stories to read. Serial killer movies are my favourite. I hate chick flicks and would rather stuff turkey's arses for a living than watch things like Notting Hill or Love Actually. etc. Those films are an insult to me and to all good film writers. How many good film writers go unnoticed cos of people liking the same old rubbish movies like mentioned above?!! Grrr.

My son and family ( I adore my boy)
My food ( I like it)
Sex ( love it) but in a relationship, not casual. AGAIN, not casual.
My music, have to listen everyday, makes me feel alive.
The computer ( without it I wouldn't be typing this)
Mobile ( it is a great comfort to know I can call friends anytime for a chat or help) but sometimes it pisses me off when I get too many texts and it fills up my tiny mailbox.

Polar bears and bonobos.

My son, my life.

Why some people die young, whilst others live to be a 101.

What do people who are blind see in their dreams?!

And a lot of other things but would probably sound rubbish if I put it on here!!

More than likely with a friend, at home or perhaps at the supermarket shopping and bending over the freezer section..............to reach for the frozen peas of course :-)

Is, is, is, is.........oh you will have to know me for that one ;-)

....you have a great sense of humour, are silly, witty and don't take life too seriously at all. Also if you are caring, moved by what you see happening in the world and have some opinions on it. If you're intelligent and can have good converstaions.

If you're handsome, yes handsome, and not the type of handsome that your mother says you are :-) But it's what I find attractive and not what convention ( tries ) to tell me I should find attractive :-)

And if you like cuddly ladies as I do like my food. Am comfortable with myself . I would like a guy to like me because of me, my size and who I am, not in spite of it :-)