I am looking for a counterpart, someone who I have some commonality with. It is a little hard to endlessly drone on about oneself and not seem egotistical. Instead I prefer to state what I am seeking which is a long term committed relationship. Please do not email me if you are married or in a relationship. I do not know what "likes " are but I have a few thousand of them and cannot see them so if you think we are a good match feel free to write me.
I'm often asked the question so I will say "yes my pics are current and I do look like my pics". The most recent pic is from Feb. 2013 from my work profile. New photos to come soon but I still think I look like the ones I posted.
I am generally vivacious, warm, nurturing, affectionate, intelligent and articulate (I play a mean game of Scrabble so if you are not intimidated I'm up for a challenge). I have enjoyed a good career and traveling extensively (which I enjoyed a lot) but family and friends are important to me. I have a big heart and I'm not cynical.
My beautiful daughter is now 17 yrs. old and more independent every day which means I def. have the time, energy and love in my heart for a wonderful romantic relationship. I need a relationship that is filled with passion, warmth and mental connection (you do not have to have a huge IQ but you need to have something to say when we connect. If you can make me laugh that is a plus. If you are a great kisser that is a big plus because I love to kiss but it does take two.
We may not agree on every question, it's more important we agree on our values. That includes the fact that I do not do any drugs and it is not what I seek in a match. I seek someone with family values, but a contemporary thinking. Meaning that I am pretty open minded.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm raising my daughter to be a wonderful young lady, doing volunteer work because I am happy to give back, staying active and fit, working. I work as an office manager is Stamford CT so I'm open to dating someone in Long Island, CT or Westchester or within an hour of my home which is 8 miles outside of midtown Manhattan.
I’m really good at
Being a friend, being a family member, dancing, def. a logical
mind, and word games of all sorts. Giving and accepting affection.
Pretty good at baking if you like to indulge, banana bread seems to
be the favorite lately.
The first things people usually notice about me
My height and my long hair. Then my lips, and no I haven't had
injections. The better to kiss with.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite book and movie of all time is Pride and Prejudice so I
warn you I love all those romantic period pieces. I do know most
guys won't sit thru it, it's ok. My daughter will. I just saw
Something Borrowed and I know it's a chick flick but I lOVED
I also like to go to Broadway plays and do so every couple of
I like different kinds of music, like many kinds. I love to
TV- I'm not a huge TV person but the shows I like are Shark Tank,
Downton Abbey, Suits, Undercover Boss.
The six things I could never do without
Kisses and Hugs (they are a package deal and I love strong hugs).
Oh well I guess that's 7 - guess I'm just too demanding.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Doing things to make the people I love happy. I see online as a way
to meet someone compatible that I would not meet in my everyday
events. But this business of scammers is ruining it for everyone.
The signs I see are they are always widowers, and they are looking
for someone with chemistry up to 30 years older then themselves.
Let's be real.
On a typical Friday night I am
If I have my daughter that weekend something kid friendly and if I
don't I hope dancing is on the schedule. But I'd love chilling with
good company and a glass of red wine.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have lots of private things to share with the right person.
You should message me if
You are successful, intelligent, warm, honest, affectionate and
looking for a real long term relationship. I seek a mental,
physical and emotional connection. If you can make me laugh that is
a plus. If you are romantic that is a plus too. Please leave the
game playing at home since it's such a waste of time.