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Bextricity

40 F New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 33–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Aug 29
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I'm a mix of passion and playfulness, equally excited by political issues and art projects; creative, curious, and colorful; fond of adjectives and alliteration.

I grew up on Long Island, but I'm convinced that was just a fluke of the cosmos and I got lost on the way to being born. I love this city as if it were capable of consciously loving me back. I can't imagine living anywhere else. Though I will still correct you if you say "in" Long Island instead of "on."

I've read every book that I own at least twice, and I get a kick out of seeing movies on the night they open. If I know the lyrics to the song, I will sing along, whether the music is coming from a live show, the office elevator, or someone's extra-loud iPod on the train. I'd rather pretend I don't speak English than admit to a tourist I don't know how to get to where they're going. I always stop to pet the bodega cat. I like my substance with a dash of style.

DISCLAIMER: OKCupid has magically determined that my personality is "more adventurous," and while that's true in many respects, I feel it's also a bit misleading, as I've only been on a plane twice in my life. ("All my pleasures are homey ones: armchair splendor, the sedate excitements of domesticity...a mystery novel in bed...the symmetry of grocery bags sitting on the kitchen counter waiting to be unpacked...") I don't have anything against traveling, really, I just haven't gotten around to it much yet. Care to accompany me as I catch up? :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Putting the commas in the right places.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Puzzles.
Karaoke.
Making things pretty.
Making pretty things.
Picking out perfect birthday presents.
Constructing elaborate, lunatic Halloween costumes.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Most likely the white streak in my hair. It's been gaining prominence since I was about 22.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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BOOKS:
Almost anything by Margaret Atwood
The Corrections
The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time
The Hunger Games (I know, I know...)

MOVIES:
Aliens, Inception, The Usual Suspects; Little Miss Sunshine, Run Lola Run; Pride & Prejudice, The Princess Bride...

SHOWS – THEATER:
I was one of the volunteer spellers when I saw The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee on Broadway. My word was "pakapu." I got it wrong. It was devastating. :(

SHOWS – TV:
I have something of an unhealthy affinity for HGTV and The Walking Dead.

MUSIC:
As a former college radio DJ, there's a special place in my heart for all things "alternative."

FOOD:
I could eat grilled cheese and tater tots or my mom's chicken lasagne every day of my life.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Books.
2. The Internet.
3. Prescription sunglasses.
4. An unlimited MetroCard.
5. My crazy, amazing siblings.
6. A flat iron.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Color, texture, pattern, and shine.
(I spend a lot of time designing/styling things.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
unwinding.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I was 5, I requested an R2-D2–shaped cake for my birthday. The bakery called my mom twice to confirm that the cake was indeed for a girl.
You should message me if
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You are bookish and boyish and a little bit edgy, like sci-fi and subtitles, enjoy amusement parks as much as museums, and would like to meet a dynamite girl. :)