Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am 39, happily married, have no kids (and probably won't have
any), have 2 cats, and have many tattoos
I am interested in civics and politics
, and I
have strong views and moral opinions. I generally think mine are
correct, and I am stubborn enough that if you disagree, I probably
won't listen to you so you won't get a chance to change my mind.
This is true with politics moreso than my moral views. I am
slightly spiritual yet not religious, so don't think I feel the way
I do out of some obligation to any specific higher power.
I pretty much hold myself to an impossibly high standard and when
people don't reach that standard, I get disappointed.
I am clever, inquisitive, and critical
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Fumbling through my daily existance. Attempting to survive (I
unfortunately succeed at this too often).
I'd love to call myself an amateur photographer
am too critical of myself to say that.
I am an amateur historian
, because you
don't have to be good at that to say you are one.
I read. A lot.
I consider myself to be pretty good at ratiocination
enough), and I (usually) like planning the vacations
my husband and I go
I write (occasionally).
I get tattoos.
I sleep. I'm very good at this.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Analyzing myself (but never come up with answers)
Making both of my cats purr
Becoming (and staying) irritated
I'm learning to be good at photography and shooting (guns)
Making people laugh when I had no intention to do so, and when I
ask "Why'd you laugh?" being told "You're just so funny!"
Not finishing thi -
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If I'm wearing a sleeveless shirt, my tattoos.
If not, then maybe my flawless skin. I am blessed that in spite of
having numerous other issues, I have never had acne.
Maybe sometimes my long(ish) ponytail.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Authors I like: Jonathan Kellerman
, James Lee Burke
Faye Kellerman, Neil Gaiman
(met him three times
, Charlaine Harris
, Laurell K Hamilton (met her once, and I don't like
her newer stuff - I prefer plots with occasional sex as opposed to
sex with an occasional plot), Kim Harrison
, John Sandford
Movies I like: Stand By Me
, The Usual Suspects
Swingers, Fried Green Tomatoes
, Twin Peaks:FWWM
Musical artists I like love: Singer/songwriters
, Anne Heaton, Willy Porter
, Glen Phillips
), Lyle Lovett
, Toad the Wet
, Nickel Creek
, Mutual Admiration
, country (Lady Antebellum
, Brad Paisley,
Rascall Flatts, etc), older r.e.m.
Favorite food: American, and americanized ethnic food (chinese,
TV shows I like, even though you didn't ask, and in no particular
order: Person Of Interest
, NYPD Blue
, House: MD
, Lie To Me
, and more.
Other interests: I am mostly interested in the following
events/times/people in US History
, starting with: the births
(both born in
1809), death of Poe (1849), The War Between The States (1861-1865),
(1865), the shootout at the OK Corral
(1881), Wyatt Earp
1929) the Lindbergh kidnapping (1932) pretty much ending with the
gangsters the FBI focused on during the early 30's (John Dillinger
public enemy number one until they killed him in 1934).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My loved ones (my husband Tom, my mom & dad)
My friends (few and far between, thus - valued)
Music I like (as I most certainly can live without music I don't
Black & white
My senses (since 3 of my 6 things involve senses, that makes them
seem pretty important)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Caring too much about what other people think of me
Wishing I didn't care what other people thought of me
(and why people on here don't really mean they're looking for
friends, even if they say looking for friends, unless they only
want friends who could lead to dating partners)
(and why do so many guys look at my profile...doesn't it say I'm
married? I'm not opposed to having male friends, but this whole 33
stalkers in 48 hours thing is confusing me)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out to dinner with Tom, mom and dad
Maybe getting dessert later on
If it's not raining or cold out, maybe go to a store
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm alone right now.
(and I need to pee)
You should message me if
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You want a kickass new friend (that'd be me).
You scrapbook but don't want to scrapbook with bunches of
strangers, yet don't really want to scrapbook alone all the time,
You like to take pictures and can help me remember what I learned
in the photography classes I took 10 years ago.
You like Poe, Lincoln, Wyatt Earp, John Dillinger, and can tell me
something interesting about any of them.
You should *not* message me if you are any or all of the
Someone who only listen to rap/hip-hop (most important)
Looking at me for anything other than friendship
Anyone who wants me to participate in any kind of "touching"
You enjoy driving with chinchillas or reptiles running loose
throughout your vehicle
Any type of murderer, except serial
You probably shouldn't message me if you're any of the following,
though I'll make more exceptions to this list than the list
A big headed gray space alien
A convicted felon
Completely remove all body hair on a more than weekly basis
A serial killer
A pipe or cigarette smoker
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