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48 Zürich, Switzerland Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 37-54
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:38pm
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Curious and open-minded man who appreciates charming conversation, grand cities and sensual, atmospheric writing.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working, reading, taking long, solitary walks on city streets when I need it.
I’m really good at
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Never being bored. A willingness to accompany personalities very different from mine.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Openness to anyone who is willing to be open, and still giving it a go with those who aren't.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Moby Dick, Mad Men, Jane Austen, William Faulkner, Fassbinder, Hitchcock, Cat Power, Sinatra, Andy Warhol, Louise Brooks, Flannery O'Connor, Francis Bacon, Kafka, Nabokov, Led Zeppelin, Johnny Cash, Shakespeare, Shakespeare, Shakespeare, Lady Gaga, Joy Division, T-Rex, The Smiths, Adele, Oscar Wilde, Erika Lust, William Gibson. Dostoyevsky. Bauhaus. Mary J. Blige. Ray Charles. Malcolm X. William Burroughs. Anais Nin, Hieronymus Bosch, Harpers Magazine, PJ Harvey, Marlene Dietrich, Jean-Luc Goddard, Egon Schiele, Lucien Freud, Mozart, Otto Dix, Joan Crawford, Uffizi, Georg Grosz, Grimes, Sammy Davis Jr. Goldfrapp, Lana del Rey, British Museum, Charles Bukowski, old Micky Rourke movies,, Steampunk, Tate Modern, Kunsthaus Zürich, MoMA NY, Museum of Natural History. NY Public Library, Louis CK, Kurt Weill
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids
News and non-fiction
Big cities
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The years, the moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Wandering around Zürich, looking for a good movie, meeting up with friends or running along the lake.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I deeply, deeply want to create mood like only Leonard Cohen can. That is aiming high, I know. But when I do write, I try to do it with texture and depth. A small sample below.

"And in this wordless moment he brings her close. He can feel the shape of her under his hand as he drags it down over the small of her back. For a moment, he pauses to let his fingertips trace over the fabric of her dress, and as his fingers push forward toward her it is like the silk melts away. She is close to him now and her breath is slow and deep. He looks up to find her eye. She catches him with her glance and holds him in it and he sees her lips slowly part. Leaning slightly he brings himself to her and feels the soft edge of her lip. And in this small space of time he finds the tip of her tongue with his. And her kiss is electric..."
You should message me if
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You like good conversation. You have music to share. You like long stories that aren't too long, bad jokes that aren't too bad. You enjoy meeting new people, new personalities.